Woman Wednesday: Kristen Z.


Q and A with Kristen Z. from New Jersey, United States

“…when we align our actions with what genuinely matters to us, we create a life that feels good, not just one that looks good on paper.”


Q: What are you passionate about?



Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I’ve learned that prioritizing our authentic values is the key to a fulfilling life. When we place our energy into what truly resonates with us at a heart level, everything else still gets done—but in a way that feels more aligned and sustainable.

Too often, we push through life on autopilot, checking off tasks without considering whether they truly serve us.

But real success isn’t just about productivity; it’s about how we feel while we’re doing it. By managing our energy wisely—physically, mentally, and emotionally—we don’t just survive; we thrive. I want others to know that when we align our actions with what genuinely matters to us, we create a life that feels good, not just one that looks good on paper.


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Woman Wednesday: Aide


Q and A with Aide from Tijuana, Mexico, living in Rosarito Beach

“I used to sabotage myself with negative thoughts, which put me in a very low vibrational state.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about learning new things every day and improving the ones I’ve already learned about. I love simple things such as going to the beach for a walk or a swim, biking around my hometown, sharing moments with family, working on my business, dancing and singing karaoke, and planning the next traveling adventure. Also, I have started a business with a couple of friends called Mujer Salvaje-Fractal Cristal. We sell quartz and other minerals. Our intention is to spread awareness about how powerful minerals are as a tool for expanding our consciousness. It all started for me when my now-business partners showed me their mineral collection, and I was completely amazed by it. They gifted me some minerals that I wore as jewelry and also as a decoration in my room. Minerals helped me while I was struggling with a huge depression. I am so grateful for their help that I decided to start selling them and talking about how great they are. I feel like my biggest passion is to help myself and others.

Q: Can you tell us more about the minerals. Which are most popular? Which do you like best?

A: Minerals are Earth’s DNA. I love learning more and more about minerals because they are a beautiful element from Mother Nature. I have also used them as tools for meditation. I love wearing my labradorite necklace because I feel protected and more in tune with myself. The most popular sold items are minerals used for protection such as obsidian and tourmaline. After those, it’s amethyst, agate, and pink quartz. I think that the reason why minerals such as obsidian and tourmaline are the most popular is that people feel like they need something to protect themselves. Energetically speaking, these minerals are protectors and help absorb dense/negative energy from others and from their own negative thoughts. We tend to be our worst enemies by thinking negatively about ourselves. Therefore, I’ve met many people wanting to change their thought processes, and have more positive lives.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was born in Tijuana, Mexico, and was raised in my current hometown Rosarito Beach, which is located 20 minutes south of Tijuana. I have always been a beach lover and started surfing in my early 20s. At the time, I was still not sure about what to study in college. But thanks to my love for the ocean, I decided to study fisheries biology with a marine emphasis. I did some years in community college in San Diego, CA, and then transferred to Cal Poly Humboldt in Northern CA to finish my bachelor’s degree in science. I am thankful for that experience because it helped me learn so much about our natural world. That’s why I feel like I am now dedicating myself to the mineral world. This current business I have combines my passion for science, spirituality, and art.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I have learned so much about myself and how to treat myself with love and respect. I used to sabotage myself with negative thoughts, which put me in a very low vibrational state. Ever since I lost both my parents and my dear grandmother, life became harder to enjoy. But, thanks to using minerals as tools for meditation, I have realized that I have to enjoy the present. Our loved ones who have passed are and will always be living in us. This is the time for us to shine and thank ourselves for everything we are.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
Feminism means to me, a support system for women to share their experiences and to feel like we are protecting each other. We are not alone.

MORE ABOUT AIDE: I am a dual citizen (Mexican-American), and I speak fluent English and Spanish. I would like women to ask as many questions about minerals and help each other live the present to the fullest!

Thank you for your precious time.

Thank you for reading!

Woman Wednesday: Lia


Q and A with Lia from Bali, Indonesia & Brisbane, Australia

“Life’s about collecting experiences and learning from them.”


Q: Tell us about yourself.

A: I’m passionate about learning and teaching! I’m passionate about helping people progress in their lives, especially through technology.

That’s why I’m running a non-profit organization called Remote Skills Academy as the CMO, and we are aiming to help young Indonesians to upskill and reskill with digital remote skills and help them to work remotely and live on their own terms.

I’m also a founder coach. I’m helping founders work on their marketing strategy and also helping them gain online authority through their thought leadership so they can attract the right talents, partners, investors, and customers.

I come from an IT background. I started my career as a web developer and then I built a few startups in the past.

All of my startups are related to what I love the most, which is reading and writing. I’m a writer of 32 books, varied from fiction and non-fiction in Indonesia. I read a lot; I can read a few books in one day, and I enjoy reading non-fiction, mostly on self-development, productivity, and spirituality.

Right now, I am really curious to learn about AI with Remote Skills Academy. We have classes and courses around AI. I’m experimenting a lot with generative AI, prompt engineering, and AI automation, and this is what I’m currently passionate about.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was brought up from island to island all over Indonesia by introverted parents who love reading. I guess growing up, I was surrounded by books and that’s how I fell in love with reading in the first place.

One day, I read a comic book and then I fell in love with storytelling. I wanted to make my own comic at first and then the story grew and grew longer than the comic itself. That’s how I had the idea for the first time to be a writer.

I started writing poetry and short stories when I was 11, and I wanted to try to showcase my poetry.

My dad at that time, imagine Indonesia in 1997–the internet was a very, very new thing, nobody had it, but my dad bought me a laptop and then connected me to the internet. Soon enough, I found a community and I got inspired to build a website to showcase my poetry. That’s basically the beginning of the story of my involvement in the technology industry. I built my first website when I was 13, and I still want to become a writer, but then my parents being protective of their daughter, they wanted me to study engineering instead.

I listened to them and took IT in university, and then I graduated to become a web developer handling big clients’ projects.

While working as a web developer, I was able to build this tech solution for clients, so I wanted to build my own tech solution around my passion.

The first one was an online bookstore, the second one was an online print-on-demand platform, and the third one was a digital storytelling platform where writers can write per chapter and monetize per chapter. So, the way that my dad gives me access to technology has helped me to start this career in tech.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: At 40, I’ve seen life’s highs and lows. Challenges are just lessons in disguise.

There’s always a silver lining, even if it’s hidden for now.

And when in doubt? Experiment. Dive in, and try things out. Life’s about collecting experiences and learning from them.

Choose what lights up your soul.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
As the cofounder of Girls in Tech Indonesia, my perspective on feminism revolves around embracing our unique qualities as women, especially in the tech industry.

It’s about ensuring equal opportunities, rights, and access, especially in male-dominated sectors like technology.

Feminism is about shattering biases and showcasing diverse perspectives in tech. It’s about creating an inclusive culture and policies that promote women’s participation.

Woman Wednesday: Natasha


Q and A with Natasha from Washington, USA

“You can be incredibly skilled or invest in learning the best strategies, but without the right mindset, you still won’t get the result.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about finding ways to play and making the most of my time every day. I love spending time being a mom to my three-year-old son, cooking, SCUBA diving, and my work supporting other entrepreneurs.

I help entrepreneurs tap into playfulness in their business to elevate what they sell and how they sell it, so they can create massive visibility, make consistent sales, and have a whole lot more fun! Some things I’m currently working on in my business that I’m excited about are launching a networking container that will include a retreat to a fabulous location. I’m also building out a new program for people who want to work with me in a group or short-term capacity. It’s amazing because it allows me to support more people by having an impact at multiple price points.

In my personal life, I’ve started taking harp lessons. It’s so much fun! This is my first time playing a musical instrument, it’s never too late to learn. Also, I love to travel! I’ve visited over 40 countries. My new ones this year were Costa Rica, Senegal, The Gambia, Cape Verde, Montenegro, Bosnia, and Herzegovina. My favorite things to do when I’m traveling are to wander the streets and make new friends, take food tours, and watch my son take in the world.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: As a kid, I always wanted to be a writer and a performer. I loved to sing, act and tell stories. So, it’s really perfect that now I get to do all of those things in my business, and teach other people how to grow their impact by telling their own stories. I really loved and excelled in school. And in my childhood, I always received the message that the path to success was to go to school and get a good job. So I did exactly that, went to a great school, and got a great job, but it didn’t make me feel successful or fulfilled. 

I knew I needed to do something different, but I didn’t grow up with many examples of entrepreneurship, especially successful black female entrepreneurs. That’s why supporting and guiding that community is so, so important to me. I want to share the knowledge I didn’t have and inspire more women to build something of their own.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Mindset is greater than skill set. When it comes to growth and success, winning the inner game is crucial. I experienced this when I was transitioning from being an employee to an entrepreneur. I brought my employee mindset to building a business and it held me back for the longest time. But once I hired a mentor, he helped me rewire how I was thinking. Within six weeks, I made $20k in sales. And within a year, I had a six-figure business. 

You can be incredibly skilled or invest in learning the best strategies, but without the right mindset, you still won’t get the result. Those limiting beliefs will still hold you back, and you’ll get stuck at the same point, the same level of success, over and over again. If you want to have a breakthrough, you have to have a mindset shift first. I’ve seen it for myself and my clients, it always works this way. 

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
Feminism, to me, means having choice and opportunity. For women to have the ability to choose what feels aligned and right for them in every area of their life, without barriers to their happiness, success, or fulfillment. The choice to be a mom or not be a mother. The choice to work or not to work. The choice to be feminine or not feminine. The choice to follow a faith or not follow it.

And for those women to have every opportunity that’s afforded to men. The opportunity to grow, to be a leader, to flop and make mistakes, and to see themselves represented in their media. That’s what feminism looks like to me. 

MORE ABOUT NATASHA:

I’d love to share the mantra I live by, it’s been the mindset that’s made everything possible…

Be bold. Play first. Live Free.

Thank you for reading!

Woman Wednesday: Allison


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