Woman Wednesday: Lia


Q and A with Lia from Bali, Indonesia & Brisbane, Australia

“Life’s about collecting experiences and learning from them.”


Q: Tell us about yourself.

A: I’m passionate about learning and teaching! I’m passionate about helping people progress in their lives, especially through technology.

That’s why I’m running a non-profit organization called Remote Skills Academy as the CMO, and we are aiming to help young Indonesians to upskill and reskill with digital remote skills and help them to work remotely and live on their own terms.

I’m also a founder coach. I’m helping founders work on their marketing strategy and also helping them gain online authority through their thought leadership so they can attract the right talents, partners, investors, and customers.

I come from an IT background. I started my career as a web developer and then I built a few startups in the past.

All of my startups are related to what I love the most, which is reading and writing. I’m a writer of 32 books, varied from fiction and non-fiction in Indonesia. I read a lot; I can read a few books in one day, and I enjoy reading non-fiction, mostly on self-development, productivity, and spirituality.

Right now, I am really curious to learn about AI with Remote Skills Academy. We have classes and courses around AI. I’m experimenting a lot with generative AI, prompt engineering, and AI automation, and this is what I’m currently passionate about.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was brought up from island to island all over Indonesia by introverted parents who love reading. I guess growing up, I was surrounded by books and that’s how I fell in love with reading in the first place.

One day, I read a comic book and then I fell in love with storytelling. I wanted to make my own comic at first and then the story grew and grew longer than the comic itself. That’s how I had the idea for the first time to be a writer.

I started writing poetry and short stories when I was 11, and I wanted to try to showcase my poetry.

My dad at that time, imagine Indonesia in 1997–the internet was a very, very new thing, nobody had it, but my dad bought me a laptop and then connected me to the internet. Soon enough, I found a community and I got inspired to build a website to showcase my poetry. That’s basically the beginning of the story of my involvement in the technology industry. I built my first website when I was 13, and I still want to become a writer, but then my parents being protective of their daughter, they wanted me to study engineering instead.

I listened to them and took IT in university, and then I graduated to become a web developer handling big clients’ projects.

While working as a web developer, I was able to build this tech solution for clients, so I wanted to build my own tech solution around my passion.

The first one was an online bookstore, the second one was an online print-on-demand platform, and the third one was a digital storytelling platform where writers can write per chapter and monetize per chapter. So, the way that my dad gives me access to technology has helped me to start this career in tech.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: At 40, I’ve seen life’s highs and lows. Challenges are just lessons in disguise.

There’s always a silver lining, even if it’s hidden for now.

And when in doubt? Experiment. Dive in, and try things out. Life’s about collecting experiences and learning from them.

Choose what lights up your soul.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
As the cofounder of Girls in Tech Indonesia, my perspective on feminism revolves around embracing our unique qualities as women, especially in the tech industry.

It’s about ensuring equal opportunities, rights, and access, especially in male-dominated sectors like technology.

Feminism is about shattering biases and showcasing diverse perspectives in tech. It’s about creating an inclusive culture and policies that promote women’s participation.

Woman Wednesday: Authors, Dee J. Stone


Q and A with Authors, Dee J. Stone 

“Don’t be afraid to put your work out there. It’s very daunting at first, but it’s so rewarding when people read your book and tell you how much they love it. What makes us feel good is when we get a message from a reader telling us how she had a pretty hard day and our book made her feel better.”

Q: Who are you?

A: We are Dee J. Stone, a pseudonym for two sisters who write and publish young adult and adult novels on Amazon. We’ve been doing this for over five years. Here is our Amazon author page.

Q: What got you interested in writing?

A: We were always creating stories since we were little kids, although we didn’t know that at the time. As young kids, we would sit with our dolls and play for hours, creating a story and running with it. When we were a little older, around middle school, we would draw comics and create stories that way. But we didn’t actually start writing until high school. We started off writing plays before moving onto novels.

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Pictured: Dee J. Stone’s most popular novel, Merman’s Kiss. Available for Kindle or paperback, click here. 

Q: Why did you choose self-publishing, and can you explain it?

A: Self-publishing is when you write and publish a book all on your own, without reaching out to an agent and/or publisher. A self-published author has to handle every aspect of the publishing process including providing a good cover that would catch readers’ attention, editing, proofreading, and marketing. Many authors hire other people to take care of the cover and editing, though marketing is usually on their shoulders. The reason we chose the self-publishing route was that we like the freedom to make our own choices when it comes to our books.

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Pictured: Dee J. Stone’s novel, Cruiser. Available for Kindle or paperback, click here. 

Q: Can you tell us about some of the books you have published? 

A: Sure! Our most popular books are a part of a paranormal romance series called Merman’s Kiss. Here is the link to the series. It follows the story of Cassie Price, who stumbles across a merman that has washed up on shore. The two of them become close and eventually fall in love.

Another series we have is a superhero series called Keepers of Justice. It’s about a school for kids with powers. Here is the link to the series. We also have a fairy-tale retelling series. We write in many genres, such as paranormal, fantasy, contemporary, and romance.

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Pictured: Book one of the series, Keepers of Justice. Available for Kindle or paperback, click here. 

Q: What advice would you give to aspiring writers? 

A: Don’t be afraid to put your work out there. It’s very daunting at first, but it’s so rewarding when people read your book and tell you how much they love it. What makes us feel good is when we get a message from a reader telling us how she had a pretty hard day and our book made her feel better. Another piece of advice would be to make sure you give your book to someone to read before publishing it. Someone who is not a family member or friend and can give you honest feedback. A writer constantly needs to learn from her mistakes. And another piece of advice? Try not to take bad reviews too seriously. Every book gets them, and they hurt really badly, but try to focus on the good reviews and continue writing.

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Pictured: Dee J. Stone’s Falling for the Genie, available via Kindle or paperback, click here. 

Q: Is there anything valuable you have learned throughout the writing/publishing process?

A: Stay true to who you are and what you believe in. Many writers feel like they need to change themselves in order to fit in and sell more books. If you want to sell, you may need to make some changes to your writing, but you shouldn’t have to compromise your beliefs. Readers will love your story if you write it well and touch their hearts.

Q: What would you like others to learn from your stories?

A: We believe in writing characters who respect one another. When we write romance novels, we try to portray sweet and kind guys/men who treat women with the utmost respect. There are so many books out there that have male characters who don’t treat their women very kindly, and that is not something we believe in. Hopefully, readers will walk away from our stories with a better understanding of how people should treat one another.

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Pictured: Chasing Sam, written by Dee J. Stone, available via Kindle or paperback, click here. 

Q: What does feminism mean to you?

A: Expanding on the previous question, we believe that feminism is about people respecting one another. No two people are created the same, and there will always be a difference of opinion or arguments. It’s how a person treats other people that matters. Feminism is not only about women feeling equal to men, but showing men how to treat women, and how women should treat one another as well. As the golden rule goes, “Treat others the way you want to be treated.”

Check out our books, available on Amazon here.

Click here for our best selling book! 

 

Woman Wednesday: Apryl


Q and A with Apryl from Lake Forest, California

“I see so many people scared to embrace creativity, playfulness, or spontaneity. They fear embarrassment, humiliation, rejection, or failure. It is my wish to help people unplug from those fears…”


Q: What are you passionate about?



Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I’ve been told that when you are creating something you are connected to divinity.

I see so many people scared to embrace creativity, playfulness, or spontaneity. They fear embarrassment, humiliation, rejection, or failure.

It is my wish to help people unplug from those fears and hold a safe space for them to have the experience and joy that comes with creating something, making art, making music, writing a book, or anything else creative.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: I can see this from a few different perspectives. I would like to think of feminism as being unapologetically myself, as a woman.

Loving myself unconditionally. Embracing what makes me a woman. Celebrating my body, my hormones, my emotions, my choices, what brings me peace, and what completes me.

Building communities with loving, wise, caring, nurturing women to heal and grow with.

I don’t see feminism as a way to tear down or exclude men, but I can see how some may interpret feminism that way.


Woman Wednesday: Ihra


Q and A with Ihra from Manila, Philippines

“…every challenge, every late night, and every tough decision has taught me that I am stronger than I ever thought possible.”


Q: What are you passionate about?



Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: One of the most important things I’ve learned is the power of resilience. Life as a single mother can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. But every challenge, every late night, and every tough decision has taught me that I am stronger than I ever thought possible.

Resilience isn’t about never falling; it’s about getting back up every time. One of the hardest lessons I had to learn was that asking for help doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human. Whether it’s leaning on family, friends, or community resources, reaching out for support is a strength, not a weakness.

It’s easy to feel like you’re falling short when juggling so many roles, but remember that you are enough just as you are. The love, effort, and dedication you pour into your family and work are what truly matter. Your journey doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s to be valid and valuable.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: To me, feminism means advocating for equality, respect, and the freedom for all individuals—especially women—to make choices that align with their values, ambitions, and needs without judgment or restriction. It’s about breaking down the barriers that have historically limited women’s opportunities and recognizing the diverse ways in which women contribute to society, both inside and outside the home.

Feminism, to me, is about embracing the full spectrum of what it means to be a woman today—strong, vulnerable, ambitious, nurturing, and unapologetically ourselves. It’s about fighting for a better world not just for ourselves, but for future generations.

MORE FROM IHRA: As I always say: Travel like there’s no tomorrow. Dance as if no one is watching. Laugh until your jaw hurts. And love as if it’s your first and last.


Woman Wednesday: Noma


Q and A with Noma from Karachi, Pakistan

“I took a leap of faith two years back, and today, I am living the life I want.”


Q: What are you passionate about?



Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Taking the first step to invest in a valuable skill is important. I took a leap of faith two years back, and today, I am living the life I want.



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