“Never let a mistake or what you see as failure to stay with you for life. Live, learn, and move forward.”
Q: What are you passionate about?
A: My passion and work is to assist rescue dogs and families with dog problems. Sharing my knowledge and wealth of experience hopefully keeps more dogs out of the shelter, where their fate is not always a good one.
I started assisting caregivers and then moved to dogs. When I started focusing on dogs, some people were surprised. Many were not. Fostering and having a rescue dog showed me how much dogs need help, especially shelter and rescue dogs.
I have been involved with many rescues, including fostering and sheltering. [“Fostering” means to provide a home-like environment in one’s residence, with the goal of reuniting the dog with their family or finding a permanent home later. “Sheltering” means providing basic care in a designated facility.]
Each experience taught me so much, as well as the mentors I met along the journey. Mentoring is important to me to keep dogs in a home and not dumped. My work includes helping owners learn to understand their dog as well as their dog’s nutrition needs. Each person has their own plan; we work together so that all are happy in a home. Along the way, I want to share with others how rescues are amazing dogs to have in a home.
This is Bandit. I rescued him at five weeks old. He is the one who got me involved to be the voice for dogs. We lost him in March 2024. He motivates me to help even more.
Q: What were your younger years like?
A: Growing up, I danced in a competition company as well as taught younger children how to dance. Doing this really taught me discipline to put the work in; you will not only improve, yet be able to do your passion as your career. I attended college to be a pre-k teacher. Sadly, teaching was not my thing, and I did not teach for more than three years.
Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?
A: We all will make mistakes along our journey. Learn from them improve and move on. Never let a mistake or what you see as failure to stay with you for life. Live, learn, and move forward.
Q and A with Leana from Chicago, Illinois, living in the Washington D.C. Metro Area
“As a wife, mom, and professional, I’ve had to navigate a lot, but staying grounded in what truly matters—my family, my faith, and making a positive impact—has kept me thriving. There’s so much peace and empowerment in choosing to grow intentionally rather than rushing to ‘have it all.’”
Q: What are you passionate about?
A: I’m passionate about living with intention and creating a positive impact in everything I do. My interests center around wellness, culinary, creativity, and connection—whether that’s through practicing Pilates and yoga, creating innovative marketing strategies, or cooking flavorful meals with healthy ingredients.
I discovered my passion for wellness over a decade ago when I started yoga and Pilates. What began as a way to stay fit and combat anxiety evolved into a deeper appreciation for how movement can bring mental clarity and emotional peace. This passion for balance and growth extends into my professional life as well.
I own and run Xenful Marketing, a boutique digital marketing and communications agency. It’s built it on values like integrity, creativity, and stellar customer service. My work allows me to collaborate with small businesses and nonprofits, helping them turn their goals into realities. Seeing my clients’ visions come to fruition is incredibly fulfilling.
I also own Xenful Kitchen (formerly Love, Food. Caters), where I create and sell low- to no-salt and low- to no-sugar spices and herbs. This ties in perfectly with my love for cooking and creating dishes that are healthy with dynamic flavor—something that became even more important to me as a mom. My cooking style and the flavors I like to play with has been called “tropical soul” by most of my clients.
Right now, I’m focused on growing both businesses while creating systems that give me time for my family and my own well-being. Personally, I’m working on habit-building systems for goal-setting and helping my toddler transition into her next developmental stage. Everything I do comes back to building a life that feels authentic and inspiring—for myself, my family, and the people I serve.
Q: What were your younger years like?
A: Being the only child to my parents, I was always busy with activities like gymnastics, dance, volunteering, etc. Growing up, I was surrounded by a strong sense of community and family values that really shaped who I am today. I’m forever grateful to my parents for raising me that way. The cultures of my family and beliefs played a huge role in my upbringing, teaching me the importance of resilience, community, and love for others.
Education was always emphasized as a way to open doors, and I embraced it wholeheartedly throughout college and even now. I worked hard in school and participated in activities that challenged and pushed me creatively and academically. Currently, I often take courses to continue my education in my respective fields and industries so that I can ensure that my knowledge is fresh and up to date as things change so swiftly.
I’ve always been a curious, inquisitive, and determined person, which led me to explore my passions early on. I was heavily drawn to dance, culinary experiences, full creativity, and expressing myself—skills that are central to my core and drive me as a culinary aficionado and digital marketing and communications professional. My family encouraged me to dream big and stay grounded, which instilled in me a strong work ethic and a love for helping others succeed.
One of the most impactful parts of my younger years was my introduction to yoga and Pilates. I started practicing over a decade ago, and it became a way for me to find balance, peace, and strength—mentally, physically and emotionally. That practice has carried into my adult life and influences how I approach challenges with mindfulness and intention. In fact, I continued practicing Pilates throughout my pregnancy until two days before giving birth! Overall, my upbringing taught me to value integrity, continuous improvement, and showing up for others. Those lessons remain at the core of everything I do as a mother, wife, or professional.
Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?
A: Something valuable I’ve learned is the power of integrity and intentionality in everything you do—whether in business, relationships, or personal growth. I’ve discovered that success isn’t just about reaching goals; it’s about the values you uphold along the way. Showing up with authenticity, prioritizing continuous improvement, and genuinely serving others create deeper, more fulfilling results.
From my story, I’d like others to learn that balance is achievable when you align your work, passions, and purpose. As a wife, mom, and professional, I’ve had to navigate a lot, but staying grounded in what truly matters—my family, my faith, and making a positive impact—has kept me thriving. There’s so much peace and empowerment in choosing to grow intentionally rather than rushing to “have it all.”
Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism, to me, is about equality, empowerment, and the freedom for women to live life on their own terms – not terms built by men. It’s not about superiority; it’s about ensuring that women have access to the same opportunities, respect, and autonomy as men.
More so, it means honoring the strength and resilience of the women who’ve come before me, breaking barriers so that my daughter grows up in a world where her voice is valued and her potential is limitless.
Feminism is also about standing against injustice, creating inclusive spaces, and making intentional choices that uplift others. It’s ensuring that women—especially women of color—are heard, respected, and given the tools they need to thrive. For me, it’s about living and working with integrity, love, and progress for all women.
We’re starting 2025 the right way! We’ve selected some of the best words of wisdom from a few of our past featured women from the 2024 Woman Wednesdays. Happy New Year, everyone! Let’s do our best to make it the best year yet!
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Lyudmyla from Ukraine says: “You’re one of a kind. Embrace everything that makes you, you. Your quirks, your dreams—they’re what make you special. Fear is okay; it’s a sign you’re growing. Don’t shy away from challenges; they’re stepping stones to something amazing. Be brave. Be you. Don’t follow the crowd if it doesn’t feel right. Be brave enough to be yourself, and amazing things will follow. You’ve got this! Your journey is yours, and it’s going to be amazing.” Read full article here.
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Iesha from Delaware, United States, says: “What I have learned through my journey through life is that as you keep going, you will come through on the other side and there’s life after.” Read full article here.
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Shannon from California, United States, says: “It’s a common assumption these days to feel burnt out and say you need to take a vacation. Or go to the spa, or go shopping, or treat yourself, or to do something relaxing. While traveling and these other things do help with self-discovery, they don’t help with healing, reprogramming the subconscious, or unlocking potential! Not to mention, there’s a whole world of self-development and spirituality accessible to us. Things like manifesting can be fun and life-changing!” Read full article here.
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Michelle from Dubai, United Arab Emirates, says: “Take chances and make mistakes! Lots of them. If you really feel for something, do it! Do it no matter how unlikely it may seem. Unlikely things can happen all the time. And like I tell my children every day: ‘You do you! Do not care about what others think.’ It’s our daily mantra. I wish someone had been whispering or shouting this in my ear when I was young and naive.” Read full article here.
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Philomena from Dublin, Ireland, says: “Once I got into personal development, things started shifting. I learned that I wasn’t powerless, and I didn’t have to wait around for life to change. I could take control of the narrative and create the life I actually wanted. It’s funny because once you start working on yourself, you realize just how much power you’ve been giving away. And here’s the thing: it’s not some overnight, magical transformation. It’s daily work.” Read full article here.
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Ginny from Bay of Plenty, New Zealand, says: “One of the main things I would say to people is to trust your own intuition; it is your compass that will help you through life, keeping you safe and leading you on your true path. I believe every one of us has a mission here, to be kind, compassionate, and to treat others how we would like to be treated ourselves. Once all of humanity starts to live like this, we will truly create the new earth. It is our destiny to make this world a better place for our children and grandchildren.” Read full article here.
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Valencia from Maryland, United States, says: “I’ve embraced the principle of trusting the process and resisting external pressures to conform to someone else’s expectations. Early on, I recognized that I may not resonate with everyone, and I’ve come to accept that as a natural part of life. Embracing my authentic self has become a paramount aspect of my identity, and I navigate life with the unwavering confidence to be true to who I am without hesitation.” Read full article here.
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Archie from Baguio City,Philippines, says: “One of the most valuable lessons life has taught me is the transformative power of resilience. In the face of adversity, it’s our ability to bounce back, learn, and adapt that defines our journey. Growing up in challenging circumstances, facing financial hardships, and the loss of my mother at a young age, I learned firsthand the importance of resilience. It’s not about avoiding difficulties but about navigating through them with determination and a positive mindset. I’d like others to understand that setbacks are not the end of the road but rather opportunities for growth. Every obstacle, every tough moment, is a chance to discover your inner strength and capabilities. Embracing challenges, rather than fearing them, can lead to personal and professional breakthroughs.” Read full article here.
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Maria from Bogota, Colombia, says: “I feel like the most valuable tool I have and what has helped me the most has been prayer/meditation. Being able to ask for divine guidance and really taking the time to listen will help you take the steps needed that are in alignment with your true purpose.”
“Remembering that we all put our pants the same way in the morning keeps me humble and grounded; it allows me to expand from a more authentic and empathic place, and to really take the time to listen to others…sometimes it’s important. To be of service is important. Walking without judgment is growth. Everyone is their own world, and oftentimes, we forget people are fighting battles we don’t know about. Being kind is important. A life of service is a life well-lived.” Read full article here.
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Dr. Satabdi from Assam, India, says: “Some life lessons that I learned: (a) Make yourself necessary and you will be needed. (b) Listen to advice from others, but never let others make decisions on your behalf. (c) Accept what you are, acknowledge your deficiencies, and try to be better. But never become someone else to gain acceptance in society as such fame is short-lived. (d) Never play the role of a victim; wake up and fight back. To fight back is the demand of the universe, even though people may call you the villain.” Read full article here.
Tune in every Wednesday to read about a new featured woman!
Christmas is a season of giving, and sometimes the most meaningful gifts are those that don’t cost a thing. Here are 10 ways women around the world have shared joy, kindness, and love during the holidays, proving that the spirit of Christmas comes from the heart.
1. Making a Phone Call
Sometimes, something as simple as calling a loved one and saying, “Merry Christmas! I love you!” can have a big impact. Texting works, too, but it’s not as personal as someone hearing your voice.
2. Leaving a Special Handwritten Note
Leaving someone a sweet note like, “Good morning! Merry Christmas!” or leaving a personalized compliment can bring a lot happiness to someone else that makes their whole day better.
3. Sharing Food
Making someone breakfast or baking cookies is a thoughtful way to express love and caring.
4. Singing Christmas Songs
Putting on some Christmas music can get everyone in the spirit, even better if you start singing for or with your loved ones!
Alternatively, you can visit a senior center or a local hospital and sing to those there.
5. Listening Without Judgment
If someone you know has been going through a tough time (grief from losing a loved one or pet, or from a health issue), ask them how they have been doing and listen to them with an open mind and heart. Everyone has ups and downs, and feeling supported can mean the world to someone.
6. Encouraging Kids’ Creativity and Play
If there are small children in your family, encourage them to be creative, imaginative, and to play! Complimenting them or joining in their fun is a great way to encourage them.
7. Writing Positive Reviews
You can support a small business NOT just by buying from them, but by leaving a positive review! Is there a favorite local shop or restaurant you enjoy or a new business you recently purchased something from? Take a minute to leave them a Google review.
8. Lighting Candles and Saying Prayers for Late Loved Ones
Celebrating loved ones who have passed by lighting a candle and saying a prayer is a beautiful way to keep them in your heart. You can do this by yourself or with family.
Alternatively, you can honor late loved ones by sharing happy memories you shared with the late loved one and the special things you remember about them.
9. Send an e-card
Forgot to send out a Christmas card or just didn’t have the time? Send out a free Christmas e-card or a cute YouTube video via email or social media to bring someone happiness!
Being calm in crowded spaces or difficult situations, like when there’s family drama, can go a long way in others’ and your own happiness.
One way to remain calm could be stepping away or, in your mind, ask yourself what three things you are most grateful for and tell yourself those things. You can keep going and try listing more things, or imagine someone in your life you are grateful for.
The holiday season reminds us that the greatest gifts come from the heart. From a simple phone call to sharing cherished recipes and songs, these acts of kindness show how women around the world bring joy to others without having to spend much, if any, money. Let’s embrace the true spirit of Christmas by spreading kindness and generosity.
Wishing you a Merry Christmas filled with connection and heartfelt moments!
“Introduce your self to people. You don’t know which one will be your friend for life.”
Q: What are you passionate about?
A:I am a photographer who started drawing this year and am taking watercolor lessons through Zoom from our Baltic Sea detailed artist, Oksana.
Moved to the Phoenix–Coronado art district in March 2017. In March, 2018, my one-story house burned from an old lamp while I was running errands. I decided to add a personal photo gallery on one side of the top floor. I had an opening March 7, 2020, but closed the gallery the next day due to the COVID pandemic.
Then a year after that, my Sri Lanka artist friend [who depends on my help to make a living], his wife, and young daughter were starving. He would love to leave that oppressive country, and I would like to help them more.
In 2022, I converted the photo gallery into an art gallery. After that, 21 artists found and joined our gallery. We are a consortium of Arizona, Southeast, Northeast, and Hawaii artists, plus artists from five countries.
Q: What were your younger years like?
A: My childhood, travel experiences, jobs, hobbies, and friends have impacted my life. The biggest incentive was to show my mother I could succeed.
As a child, I thought we were poor. My mother didn’t buy much, besides simple groceries and household items. [It was a] simple existence. I had no allowance, a really old radio, an old record player, and couple of games. My room was 9×9 feet, my haven to escape.
I attended junior college one year, worked one year to pay for university tuition, then attended KSU, and worked during full-time college. After my bachelor’s degree, I worked another year in Kansas City, but cleaned out my desk, flew to Hawaii for a vacation, got off the plane and in the airport, I wired and quit my job.
I wanted to live in Hawaii since I was a child. When I started my business, I joined a professional women’s network in Hawaii and gave a motivation speech called, “Living my Dream Now” to 200 women and received six letters of thanks for inspiring them to start their own business.
In Hawaii, I worked for a computer company. I quit and flew to Singapore and Hong Kong. When I returned, I asked myself, “Now, what am I going to do?” I decided to start an employment agency. I passed the employment exams and obtained a license in Hawaii. I managed this business for 25 years, working up to 16 hours a day, which supported my photography/travel passion. I traveled to Europe, Australia, and New Zealand several times and visited all but two of the 50 U.S. states, including three times to Alaska.
I have over 300,000 photographic images of animals, scenes and models.
In 2012, I wanted a change and moved to Phoenix, Arizona, and built a 400 sq. photo studio. In 2017, I bought the east side house near downtown. A year later, it burned. I decided to add a second story room for a photo studio, and that became Gallery Coronado–original art, sculptures, and photography.
Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?
A: 1. Everything happens for the best.
2. Watch your back, hard to know who to trust sometimes.
3. Don’t spend money on art magazine ads. It might be useful if you can afford them monthly for an extended period, but they are thousands of dollars.
4. Write press releases and hope a newspaper publishes them.
5. Be kind, generous, and fair. Compliment and help others. Help now; not later.
6. Smell good.
7. Introduce your self to people. You don’t know which one will be your friend for life.
8. Travel now when you are younger. The less iPhones you buy often, will give you money to travel.
9. Hire self-motivated people. Independent contractors work hard then many employees.
10. In your job, do more than expected to get ahead rather than back-stabbing your coworkers.
11. Be gregarious and playful. Above all, have fun.
12. Write a thank you LETTER or email after an interview stating what you will do for the COMPANY not all your demands. You will be the only one and you most likely will get the job.
Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: On feminism, I am very much for women getting ahead. Most of the private industry jobs I had, women made less money. I am sorry to say, I didn’t think Kamala was competent to serve as President. I saw interviews of her, and I can think of five other ladies in government who are high-profile people who would have been great.
I found in my business that some women are not supportive of other women.
MORE FROM PATRICIA: I would say I am from Hawaii, since most of my life was spent there and I couldn’t wait to leave the Midwest and snow. My mother would not pay for my college because she thought I would not finish (I finished with both bachelor’s and master’s degrees). I worked before college to pay for it.
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