Woman Wednesday: Nadine

Q and A with Nadine from the beautiful island nation of Niue

“There is power in knowing who you are.”


Q: Tell us about yourself. What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about empowering women and preserving my Niuean culture, both locally and globally. As Director of Miss Niue Australia, I strive to inspire young women and share Niue’s beauty with the world.


We’ve launched the Miss Niue Australia Pageant, which has paved the way for additional initiatives that promote cultural preservation and women’s empowerment. These include “Who Is She,” a platform that highlights the qualities of a strong Niuean ambassador; “Celebrate Her Story,” a series that honors Niuean women of excellence from all generations, sharing their achievements and stories; and the “Niue Walk-About Series,” which showcases our 13 villages in Niue.



These initiatives align with our vision of women empowerment, and I’m excited to continue growing and developing programs that uplift and inspire our community. Through these efforts, I’m also committed to personal growth, continually learning, and adapting to best serve my community and preserve our rich cultural heritage.



Q: What were your younger years like?

A: Growing up in Hawaii and New Zealand, I was immersed in diverse cultures and experiences that broadened my perspective. My parents, Roger and Fuatino Jackson, founders of Miss Niue NZ, nurtured my love for culture and community engagement.



From a young age, I was involved in stage and pageantry, modeling for Pasifika Arts Fashion and participating in pageants like Miss Dream Girl NZ. I also gained valuable experience as a tutor and choreographer for various pageants, including Miss Pacific Islands NZ and Miss India/Asia NZ. Performing with groups like Echoes of the South Seas and Te Are Kari Oi further enriched my cultural understanding and self-confidence. These experiences shaped me into the person I am today.



Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I’ve learned that cultural pride and community engagement are essential for personal growth and empowerment. Through Miss Niue Australia, I’ve seen firsthand how preserving and promoting cultural heritage can positively impact young women and the community.



I’d like to encourage others to explore and celebrate their own cultural roots. I also value one’s voice– speaking your truth and holding yourself accountable to what matters to you, regardless of what others think, is crucial.

If you believe in yourself, nothing can change your mind, if it’s for the greater good. In this world where we self-sabotage and compare, it can be challenging to block out the negativity and stay true to who you are. There is power in knowing who you are. Seeking out what’s already yours, what is meant to be will find you, with the right conviction. Knowing self is knowing God.



On a personal level, being a role model for my children and being their number one fan in all they do and achieve is paramount. They are my greatest achievements, and I’m committed to supporting and inspiring them every step of the way.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: To me, feminism means empowering women to lead independently, cultivate confidence, and build strong relationships.



As a leader and role model, I aim to promote these values and support young women in their personal and professional growth, helping them unlock their full potential. Through initiatives like Miss Niue Australia, I strive to create opportunities for women to shine, share their stories, and celebrate their achievements.



I believe in the importance of integrity, dignity, and excellence, and I strive to embody these values in my own life and work, inspiring others to do the same. By empowering women, we can build stronger, more resilient communities that benefit everyone.



MORE ABOUT NADINE: Born in the beautiful island nation of Niue, I was raised in the vibrant culture of Hawaii, where I first discovered my love for dance and performance.

At the age of 12, I had the courage to take the stage and perform in front of my first audience on my own–an experience that sparked a lifelong passion. I continued to nurture this passion through the years, and it remains a significant part of my life today.

I’ve also had the joy of sharing this passion with others, teaching dance and performance to those looking to express themselves and build confidence.

Later, I called New Zealand home and started my family, before settling in Australia, where I currently reside. My diverse upbringing has shaped my perspective and fueled my passion for cultural preservation and community engagement.


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Woman Wednesday: Jean

Q and A with Jean from Chicago, Illinois, living in Lancaster, South Carolina

“I found making jewelry helps me combine my knowledge of holistic healing, Reiki, and using the Chakras to help heal along with the ability to create beautiful pieces of jewelry.”


Q: Tell us about yourself. What are you passionate about? 

A: My name is Jean Schlaiss and I am the creator of Intentions by JS. I make wire and crystal jewelry, and intention candles and wax melts. I have been working at my business for the past three years and plan on continuing to do so in order to keep growing. I am hoping to get my jewelry into brick and mortar and online stores.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: My parents, my brother, and I lived in the suburbs of Chicago. We were a typical middle-class family.  Later in life, I earned my bachelor’s degree in science with a focus in holistic wellness. I am currently a school director for a cosmetology school. Finding a hobby became important to me in order to help me relax. I found making jewelry helps me combine my knowledge of holistic healing, Reiki, and using the Chakras to help heal along with the ability to create beautiful pieces of jewelry. I turned my passion for making jewelry into a business. I currently sell at markets; a boutique in Monroe, North Carolina; and on my Etsy store.  


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I have learned how to relax and find my inner peace. Making jewelry allows me to be creative as I continue to find new patterns and styles.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: I feel the word “feminism” has negative connotations. I just believe that women and men should be treated fairly and equally. I have seen the inequality at the workplace and it saddens me. Women always feel the need to be on the defense even if they have the same job, same education, or same ranking as their male counterpart. It is a fight that women will have to continue to have until everyone is on equal ground.


MORE ABOUT JEAN: My husband and I live on a farm in South Carolina. One of my two sons lives with us as well, as he has just completed his bachelor’s degree and is looking for a job. We would love to expand our farm, but that will be in the future. My parents live nearby, and my mother comes with me when I showcase my jewelry and candles at local markets. She also is very creative and offers wood burning art, also known as pyrography. It offers a fantastic way for us to spend time together.  

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Woman Wednesday: Dr. Naieema

Q and A with Dr. Naieema, Charlotte, North Carolina

“Homelessness was one of the most impactful experiences of my life.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about female empowerment, my family, and travel. My inspiration comes from seeing different parts of the world, my family, and wanting to teach my daughters that they can do anything that they put their minds to. My favorite trip was to Jamaica, right before the pandemic hit. I finished my PhD and am currently using research-based methods to improve The Determined FemPreneur™, my sales and business strategy program for service-based female entrepreneurs.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was born and raised in New York City and grew up with three siblings. There was a period where my mother, my older sister, and I were homeless. We lived on the cold, dirty NYC subway; followed by a slew of homeless shelters. That was until we landed in Ravenswood Public Housing Development in Long Island City, Queens, NYC. Homelessness was one of the most impactful experiences of my life. I watched my mother work really hard, but she didn’t have much to show for it. I now use this fuel and those lessons to teach women how to earn more, work less, and make an even bigger impact.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I want others to know that it’s okay to normalize rest and luxury. As women, we often start our businesses wanting to make an impact. All while sacrificing time with our families, our sleep, and our mental and physical health. It’s OK to build a business where you’re not overworking yourself and that equally serves you and your clients/customers.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Feminism means equality, but it can’t exist if racism exists because there are women who are of marginalized communities.


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Woman Wednesday: Topaz

Q and A with Topaz, Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

“…push past the fear and do it anyway.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about serving others, specifically women entrepreneurs who are looking to have a more fulfilled life. I want to support others’ life purpose and create balance and ease.

I spent over 16 years as a coach in various ways. I started out as a personal fitness coach and moved into an education role with the University of California Irvine. I taught leadership development courses at the ropes course for UCI and later became a corporate team building coach.

I spend every morning exercising, meditating, and sitting with my feelings. I love anything with water, so I live 15 minutes from the ocean. I am an avid paddle-boarder, and I love to surf.

I am currently working on my new life coaching business. I’ve never wanted anything more in my life and I can’t wait to support as many women as possible.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I grew up in a mountain town, population of 100. My house that I lived in did not have running water or electricity!

I learned how to do whatever it took to make “it” happen, this carried on through my adult life and career.

I think one of the most valuable quotes a past mentor told me when I said I was so overwhelmed I couldn’t even cope was, “When your cup starts to overflow, get a bigger cup.” This was a whole new perspective I had never thought before, and allowed me to take a birdseye view of my life. I realize that everything I want is possible.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I want everyone to know two things: First is that you need to put your oxygen mask on first! This is so important to know that you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of others.

Second is that you will get triggered by fear, and it’s okay to feel those triggers and to push past the fear and do it anyway.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Growing up, I was afraid of other women. I was afraid of rejection and not fitting in. It’s only recently that I discovered how incredible women are and embraced the power of the divine feminine.

So, to me, feminism is fully welcoming my fellow sisters with encouragement. I want us all to empower each other to grow and be stronger and love and support each other.


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Woman Wednesday: Melanie


Q and A with Melanie, Cape Town, South Africa

“Always be teachable.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: My name is Melanie Rutgers, and I am from Cape Town, South Africa. I love creating things as well as opportunities and experiences that influence and effect change for whomever that change is for at that moment hoping that it will have a lasting impact.

The current space I am in is women transitioning into menopause and midlife, creating platforms and events where they become empowered with information to go through the transition a lot easier and safer based on several factors.

I am very passionate about the work that I am currently busy with because I had a horrible experience during my transition and struggled to understand and manage it as I discovered that there was very little information about women going through this phase of their lives. Among other things, I am an educational and training development practitioner, which simply means that I am qualified to facilitate information for educational purposes.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I am college educated and have post-grad studies in business strategy and organizational development. I had a good middle-class upbringing and always got into trouble for asking way too many questions! I found that I had a passion to create from very early in my life and that I could use my voice to make a difference. I was always creating opportunities and experiences and events in our neighborhood and community and had a large variety of friends, much to my parent’s distress at times. [She laughs.]

The biggest lesson that I have learned about my story so far is that in one’s pursuit of finding more (whatever that more is), it is important not to always make impulsive decisions; some things need careful thought and planning because they can have severe consequences on those closest to you. Always be teachable.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Let me just say that it costs you if you become anything close to what is now coined as a solopreneur. You have to believe that what you are doing is your life’s work! So, we are currently fundraising to televise an event where we can take information to women who don’t have access to quality health care in our country, on a much larger scale than we have been doing so they can also be well and a lot more informed but most importantly, to know that they are not alone.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
Let me start by saying kudos to every woman who has ever fought for women’s rights and even went as far as changing legislation so that our voices could be heard; however, as far as feminism goes, in my opinion, it does not always need to be a fight to prove that we are worthy and capable in any one particular way or another because there is nothing to compete against. Women possess uniqueness, power, class, and strength that is unprecedented. Firstly, it is divine and very well-thought-out because we can create, influence, and maintain excellent multitasking power that no other creature on this planet has been blessed with! And those who seem not to possess what I am talking about, know that it exists, it’s there beneath what appears as brokenness; given the time and the right circumstance, it will be uncovered.

PS. I forgot to mention that I am also a talk show host and producer. This is me in the center with my two guests and two of the crew.

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