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Q and A with Judy from the UK, now living around the world

“My motto about life is: A fun-filled life is a full-filled (fulfilled) life.”

Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I am deeply passionate about living an ICONIC LIFE: A life of joy, bliss, and happiness. If I am not having fun, I question how I am leading myself in life. It is my understanding that when we lead, the universe follows with what we lead and I am always mindful of that. As living a life where I am the hurricane in my life is very important to me–rather than being a leaf in the wind of life–just allowing life to happen to me! I have come to learn that how we are and WHO we are in living our life is what determines the extent to which we manifest and materialize our dreams. I know for sure that every single one of us is born with brilliance and deserves to live a life of prosperity and abundance. What stops us–are the illusions of the world we live in; I call it the 3rd dimension paradigm where we have (as Einstein said) promoted the ego to that of a master and forgotten the sacred gift of intuition.

Beyond living an ICONIC LIFE, which for me is travel, I have lived in four countries over the past two years, scuba diving and flying and generally having fun with my lover, hubby, soulmate, and business partner for 22 years. I LOVE my work. My work is my passion. It is me. It is what I do and is what I study, including my Ph.D. which is in the final stages of editing! I dedicate my life to being empowered and empowering others–this is my number one value and my vocation. And it comes from being overpowered for so many years as a child–and what I have learned is that our voids (or the voids we experience through our perceptions) growing up become our values as adults, and we spend our lives in pursuit of fulfilling them–that will give us a rewarding and fulfilled life. The expression of our number one value is our purpose and when we can thoroughly live that every day. We live with inspiration and excitement. I am currently (as I said earlier) in the final stages of my Ph.D., which is the culmination of almost 25 years of study and research, based on my body of work–The Trilogy of Transformation. A life transformational process that alchemizes everything to love–all challenges and experiences. I do this on two levels…in the body and mind and also on a more profound, deeper level through activating our soul and living our life guided by the wisdom of our soul. As I say, we are all the individualized physical manifestation of the Universe, we are it all…and nothing is missing; we have access to all the knowledge and wisdom of the Universe through our soul. The perception that something is missing in our life is the source of all human suffering.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was locked up and tortured, used as a slave, and abused from the age of three until I escaped in my early 20s. I was uneducated, unsocialized, and lived in extreme poverty, even resorting to eating tin dog food a few times. At the age of 15, I had the first of a number of extraordinary ‘transcendent’ experiences that gave me insight into the extraordinariness of who we are. That we are so much more than our mortal bodies and can access the universal intelligence of infinite knowledge and potentiality. That experience changed the course of my life–as I saw that I would escape. There was no doubt about that, and I saw the infinite ways my life could unfold. I locked into one that I saw that was one of adventure, love, and prosperity. I spent the next six years (until I escaped) preparing myself for my life when I was free.

I tuned into my soul and my individualized oneness with the Universe every day, I was fortunate to be given the books I asked for (these were the days before the internet and YouTube!) When I escaped, I found my way to London, alone, with nothing, on a Friday evening. Within a week I had a high-paying job as a trading accountant on an oil and gas trading floor, even though I had no schooling, nothing. Purely from the wisdom I gained tapping into the energy of the quantum field; pure potentiality and magic will always happen there. I went on to create a life that was totally unpredictable given my background. I have launched and sold many businesses, in many sectors and in many countries. I have represented South Africa in world championship scuba diving, I was a national swimming champion, a water skiing champion, and I played violin in an orchestra. And for me, the best was that I found true love with my husband, where today after 22 years, we are still madly, crazily in love. And we have fun every day, which is why I dedicate my life to empowering and facilitating others to release their suffering so they too can live the most extraordinary lives, to the fullest extent of their potential in all areas of life–living their own unique ICONIC LIFE. We are all born with everything we need to live our ICONIC LIFE. We just forget it as we are conditioned into the 3rd dimension paradigm growing up, and all I do is facilitate the re-awakening of that.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: We are so much more than mortal beings. We are immortal souls having a human experience. When we tap into our power, there is literally nothing we can not be, do have, and create in our life. The more we live in the wonder and curiosity, trusting that nothing is missing and that all is within us, the higher the energetic frequency we are dwelling in. That on its own changes, the experience of life we have and changes the feedback we get from the universe. We notice that we co-create with ease and flow and we materialize what we desire pretty effortlessly. Life becomes fun–all of the time. My motto about life is: A fun-filled life is a full-filled (fulfilled) life. We are sadly conditioned to suffer (in this 3rd-dimensional paradigm), but that is an illusion–we are not here to suffer but to be fully expressed physical manifestations of our souls. Heaven is a place on earth it is not some otherworldly place we go to after we pass. It is available to us here, right now. EVERYTHING CHANGES WHEN YOU LIVE IN YOUR BLISS. You are empowered. You are abundant. You co-create magic and miracles with the universe. You overflow with the most extraordinary levels of love, compassion, empathy, and gratitude that you impact the lives of those around you, and you exemplify what is possible for humanity.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Being in your sovereign feminine power and living from that energetic space in abundance and prosperity.

MORE FROM JUDY: There is no mortal challenge anyone of us can not overcome and thrive from. Everything is love. And any separation from that is the source of all suffering. There is no challenge that can not be transmuted to love. I have done it. I have love, compassion, empathy, gratitude, and appreciation for everything in my life. It is the greatest gift from the Universe when you find that peace. And there is no greater journey than that. As that is the journey that gives us the FREEDOM we crave and as a result, we create ICONIC LIFES for ourselves.

Born in the UK, I lived my childhood in Ireland, spent most of my adult life in South Africa, and now I travel the world. In the past two years, I have lived in London, Italy, Barbados, and now Mexico. My motto is–the planet is my home, and every country a room in my home.

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Q and A with Kimberly Drotar Allen, Co-Owner and Producer at Odie Films in Orlando, Florida

“I think it’s important to adjust your plans as you continue to change and grow as a person.”

Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: My biggest passion in life is helping people. For a long time, I thought that would be through a traditional route like providing therapy or being a social worker. After graduating with my bachelor’s degree in psychology, I realized that I also have a passion for small businesses and nonprofits. I grew up in a family of entrepreneurs; my parents actually built a business around helping other business owners flourish in their respected fields. I had no idea how to combine these passions into a career path until I reconnected with my now husband, Clayton, who introduced me to the world of videography. I quickly realized that video was a powerful means of communication that allowed me to help others tell their stories and spread awareness about issues important to them. Together, my husband and I own a small production company based out of Orlando, Florida, where we work with other small businesses and nonprofits to tell the stories that matter to them.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was born and raised in a suburb of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, where I went to good public schools and was very lucky to have supportive parents and grandparents. I was never super active in school activities or sports, but I loved donating time to charities and nonprofits from a young age. My parents were determined to instill in me just how fortunate we were and I’ve never forgotten that. While other kids were out playing sports or with their friends, I was at home organizing book bag drives and walk/runs.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: As a kid, I think I felt lost because I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life. It’s so instilled in us to pick your path and stick to it, but I think it’s important to adjust your plans as you continue to change and grow as a person. Even once you “figure it out,” you need to be able to check in with yourself and make sure this path is still what you want. There’s nothing wrong with changing and pivoting. The world is not nearly as linear as adults want you to believe.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism means more to me today than I ever thought it would. I grew up privileged; my rights weren’t something I necessarily needed to think about. But being in a male-dominated field and having my husband as my business partner, the amount of times I naturally get overlooked as the woman in the room is astonishing. My mom is my biggest role model and my biggest supporter. She went back to college when I was in kindergarten, she’s built and run multiple successful businesses, and she’s the most incredibly driven woman I’ve ever met in my life. She is strong, determined, and loving. She is a feminist to me and I can only hope to become half the woman that she is.

MORE ABOUT KIMBERLY: My best advice to people trying to “figure it out” is to stop trying to fit yourself into premade boxes. There are a lot of career paths that are already laid out and traveled but don’t be afraid to find a new way for yourself. Becoming a producer at my own production company is not a normal path for a psychology major, but so many different parts of my person are being fulfilled by this untraveled path.

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Q and A with Aide from Tijuana, Mexico, living in Rosarito Beach

“I used to sabotage myself with negative thoughts, which put me in a very low vibrational state.”

Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about learning new things every day and improving the ones I’ve already learned about. I love simple things such as going to the beach for a walk or a swim, biking around my hometown, sharing moments with family, working on my business, dancing and singing karaoke, and planning the next traveling adventure. Also, I have started a business with a couple of friends called Mujer Salvaje-Fractal Cristal. We sell quartz and other minerals. Our intention is to spread awareness about how powerful minerals are as a tool for expanding our consciousness. It all started for me when my now-business partners showed me their mineral collection, and I was completely amazed by it. They gifted me some minerals that I wore as jewelry and also as a decoration in my room. Minerals helped me while I was struggling with a huge depression. I am so grateful for their help that I decided to start selling them and talking about how great they are. I feel like my biggest passion is to help myself and others.

Q: Can you tell us more about the minerals. Which are most popular? Which do you like best?

A: Minerals are Earth’s DNA. I love learning more and more about minerals because they are a beautiful element from Mother Nature. I have also used them as tools for meditation. I love wearing my labradorite necklace because I feel protected and more in tune with myself. The most popular sold items are minerals used for protection such as obsidian and tourmaline. After those, it’s amethyst, agate, and pink quartz. I think that the reason why minerals such as obsidian and tourmaline are the most popular is that people feel like they need something to protect themselves. Energetically speaking, these minerals are protectors and help absorb dense/negative energy from others and from their own negative thoughts. We tend to be our worst enemies by thinking negatively about ourselves. Therefore, I’ve met many people wanting to change their thought processes, and have more positive lives.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was born in Tijuana, Mexico, and was raised in my current hometown Rosarito Beach, which is located 20 minutes south of Tijuana. I have always been a beach lover and started surfing in my early 20s. At the time, I was still not sure about what to study in college. But thanks to my love for the ocean, I decided to study fisheries biology with a marine emphasis. I did some years in community college in San Diego, CA, and then transferred to Cal Poly Humboldt in Northern CA to finish my bachelor’s degree in science. I am thankful for that experience because it helped me learn so much about our natural world. That’s why I feel like I am now dedicating myself to the mineral world. This current business I have combines my passion for science, spirituality, and art.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I have learned so much about myself and how to treat myself with love and respect. I used to sabotage myself with negative thoughts, which put me in a very low vibrational state. Ever since I lost both my parents and my dear grandmother, life became harder to enjoy. But, thanks to using minerals as tools for meditation, I have realized that I have to enjoy the present. Our loved ones who have passed are and will always be living in us. This is the time for us to shine and thank ourselves for everything we are.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism means to me, a support system for women to share their experiences and to feel like we are protecting each other. We are not alone.

MORE ABOUT AIDE: I am a dual citizen (Mexican-American), and I speak fluent English and Spanish. I would like women to ask as many questions about minerals and help each other live the present to the fullest!

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Q and A with Jaimie from Schererville, Indiana

“The best thing to do for yourself is to believe in yourself and do what you can to get to where you want to be.”

Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m an executive coach and created my business with my twin sister. I’m passionate about helping others and initially thought I would be a therapist; however, after learning about executive leadership coaching, I knew this was the route I wanted to take for my career. I learned about industrial organizational psychology when I was an undergrad at Indiana University Purdue University Indianapolis (IUPUI). I went to get my masters in I/O psychology and found leadership coaching. I didn’t find work immediately after graduate school, so I decided to build my own business in executive coaching.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I have a very supportive family, and we’re so very close. I was always taught the importance of education and learning. In high school, I was on a competitive dance team. We competed a lot! We were state and national champions. During that time, I learned a lot about working together and what it takes to meet your goals. It took a lot of discipline.

Q: What is the best/worst thing about being a twin?

A: The best thing about being a twin is always having a best friend there to do things with and sharing clothes. [She laughs.] The worst thing is always being compared to one another.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I’ve learned that not everyone is going to believe in you and what you can do. It was difficult going through school and gaining experience in my field at the same time. I was only ever offered unpaid internships and I couldn’t afford to do that. During school, I had to work full time, so it delayed my career goals since I couldn’t get the right kind of experience. Even with my master’s degree, I wasn’t getting hired, so I took the leap to be a business owner. The best thing to do for yourself is to believe in yourself and do what you can to get to where you want to be. In my case, I built my own business!

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: I’m a feminist. It means so much to me, and I wish everyone knew that feminism doesn’t mean women over men. It means we are equal to men. I hope that feminism, one day, doesn’t have a negative connotation to it. Everyone should be a feminist!

MORE ABOUT JAIMIE: Some fun facts about me: I love skydiving! It’s always been a family tradition. I have a cat named Todd who I love so much, but I’ve always had dogs growing up. My all-time favorite TV show is FRIENDS. I can watch it nonstop!

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