Q and A with Tijuana from Frankford, Delaware
“When we stumble, it’s crucial to rise again, recondition our thoughts, and renew our mindset daily.”
Q: What are you passionate about?
A: Ever since I was a child, the world of fashion has captivated my imagination. My dream career as a fashion designer was ignited at the tender age of 10, a passion that began with my love for drawing. My grandmother, a talented seamstress, played a pivotal role in nurturing this interest. She would create beautiful clothes for me, instilling a sense of style and creativity that has lasted a lifetime.
In middle school, I eagerly chose art as my selective subject, further honing my creative skills. Learning to sew in 7th grade home economics was a pivotal moment; it allowed me to connect with the fabric of my dreams, even if my path diverged from fashion design itself. My love for the arts encompasses its uniqueness, nature, and style—elements that inspire me every day.
Though I did not pursue a career in fashion design, my artistic journey has brought me to an exciting new role as a makeup artist and entrepreneur. This path has allowed me to collaborate with a diverse array of talent, including models, fashion designers, photographers, and hair stylists. I have coordinated and led various events, immersing myself in the vibrant world of beauty and creativity.
As I continue to navigate this journey, I realize that, while the dream of owning my own business is strong, I equally enjoy the thrill of working behind the scenes. Each experience fuels my passion for creativity and the arts, reminding me that every step I take is a brushstroke on the canvas of my life. I am excited to share my journey as I embark on creating a holistic business inspired by my personal experiences, particularly my battle with breast cancer. The Essence of S.A.W. holds a deep significance for me, as it is a tribute to my beloved grandmother, Sylvia Ann Williams, who raised me, and my Aunt Gloria D. Vann, who was like a mother to me. Having returned to Delaware in 2023 after spending a transformative decade in Atlanta, I am eager to channel my experiences into meaningful community work.
My mission is to support individuals in their broken places, helping them to conquer their challenges and discover the unique strengths that reside within them. I envision collaborating with local churches and community leaders to reach those who are often overlooked or stereotyped, simply because they don’t fit societal expectations.
Currently, I am developing a program aimed at empowering both male and female youth mentoring program to regain stability in their lives. While I am in a preparation phase due to an upcoming medical procedure, I am filled with hope and determination for what lies ahead. Stay tuned for more details as I prepare to launch this initiative in 2025—it’s going to be a year of transformation and empowerment!
Q: What were your younger years like?
A: Reflecting on my early years, I recognize that I had a stable upbringing largely due to the unwavering dedication of my single grandmother. She worked tirelessly to provide for me, instilling core values that shaped my character. Attending church was a non-negotiable part of my life, though as a child, I often viewed it through the lens of obedience rather than spiritual understanding. It wasn’t until later that I truly began to appreciate the depth of my relationship with God, moving beyond mere compliance to a genuine connection.
My relationship with my biological parents, however, was fraught with estrangement, leaving me to navigate a path filled with emotional pain. This unresolved trauma followed me into my adolescent years and young adulthood, influencing my decisions in ways I didn’t fully comprehend at the time. I faced challenges, including domestic violence, both physical and emotional, which tested my resilience. Yet, through these tribulations, I have emerged stronger and more self-aware. My hope is that youth will see the greater in themselves and not their pain.
Today, I celebrate a significant milestone—almost 3 years cancer-free. This victory is not just about surviving; it’s a testament to my growth and determination to conquer life on my terms. I recognize that I am still a work in progress, but I have a clearer sense of identity and purpose. I know who I am and whose I am, and I am committed to embracing each day as an opportunity for further growth and healing.
Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?
A: In life, we often encounter challenges that test our resolve and determination. One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is the importance of never giving up on oneself. It’s essential to build a deep, meaningful relationship with God, as this connection provides us with direction and guidance through life’s tumultuous journey.
Every setback we face should not be viewed as a failure, but rather as an opportunity to learn and grow. When we stumble, it’s crucial to rise again, recondition our thoughts, and renew our mindset daily. This process of self-reflection and personal growth is fundamental to overcoming life’s obstacles.
Moreover, self-love and self-care are vital tools for maintaining balance in our mind, body, and soul. In a world that often tries to define us, it’s imperative to remember that we are not what others say we are. Taking the time to discover who we truly are can be transformative. Engaging in practices such as prayer, meditation, and affirmations allows us to connect with our inner selves and embrace our unique identities.
My story is a testament to resilience, faith, and the power of self-discovery. I hope that by sharing this, others may find the strength to navigate their own journeys, embrace their true selves, and cultivate a life filled with purpose and positivity.
Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism, at its core, is about advocating for equality and ensuring that women’s voices resonate in discussions that directly impact their lives. It’s a movement that champions women’s rights and highlights critical issues such as reproductive rights, which empower women to make informed choices about their own bodies. Addressing domestic violence is another crucial aspect, as it seeks to protect the most vulnerable and create safe spaces for all women.
Moreover, feminism emphasizes fairness and social justice, advocating for a society where everyone, regardless of gender, has equal opportunities and rights. Workplace issues are equally significant; the fight for family medical leave, equal pay, and protection against sexual harassment and discrimination is vital in creating equitable work environments. By raising awareness and fostering discussions around these topics, feminism aims to dismantle the systemic barriers that hinder women’s progress and ensure that their voices are not just heard, but valued and respected.
MORE FROM TIJUANA: After two decades away from my hometown, I’ve returned to Delaware with a wealth of experience and a desire to connect with local talent. During my time in Atlanta, I cultivated a diverse network of professionals in the fashion and creative industries, and I am eager to establish similar connections here. I invite all models, coaches, fashion designers, seamstresses, photographers, hairstylists, and marketing professionals from the Delmarva area, as well as those in DC, Philadelphia, and New Jersey to join me in networking. Together, we can create opportunities and invigorate the creative scene in Southern Delaware. Let’s collaborate, share ideas, and bring our talents together to inspire and elevate our community.
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