Woman Wednesday: Brittany

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Q and A with Brittany, Mercer County, New Jersey 

 

“Life is short, and you should do anything and everything you want to/love. Whether you are miserable at your job, doing things that don’t serve you, or you want to do things that seem out of reach, whatever that is…work toward your goals, do the things you love, and don’t stop loving your life.”

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Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: My passion is practicing yoga and bringing it to others. I came to yoga after being interested in it for a long time and never having the time to pursue it. For a long time my sole focus was on school, and then college and then finding a 9-5 job. I started to feel like I was losing myself and didn’t have any hobbies or things just for me. I eventually became so miserable with the lifestyle I was living, left my job and threw myself into all of my interests, yoga being one of them.

After continuously practicing yoga for a couple of months, I felt like a new person and realized just how much I was neglecting myself.  I enrolled in a yoga teacher training program and graduated this past June. My new focus is bringing yoga to others. I truly believe there is something in it for everyone- whether it’s the exercise through holding poses, learning how to breath, or the spiritual aspects to it. I think the general skills you learn in a yoga class can help any individual be more present and mindful in every day life. I’m working on brainstorming how exactly I want to do this while teaching/subbing occasionally at the studio I trained at!

 

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Q: What were your younger years like?

A: In my younger years, my mom got me involved in lots of extra-curricular activities. At the time I hated it and always felt busy.  Later in life, when I was looking for a hobby for myself, I appreciated that I had some exposure to different things to try out. One of my favorites was gymnastics, and I believe my childhood love for this is what drew me to yoga and made me start this path toward a career in yoga! I also used to play the piano and guitar, was very artistic and liked to paint/draw. Exploring different extra-circular activities led me to finding my passion.

 

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Q: What is something valuable you’ve learned that you’d like others to know?

A: Life is short, and you should do anything and everything you want to/love. Whether you are miserable at your job, doing things that don’t serve you, or you want to do things that seem out of reach, whatever that is…work toward your goals, do the things you love and don’t stop loving your life. This realization smacked me right in the face when I left my job that I only have one life and I realized how I was getting caught up in all the wrong things, trying to live in this box that society teaches you to live in, and I wasn’t truly enjoying life. Smile, be happy, travel (if that’s your thing), love, do, create! Just find whatever it is you love to do and do it, and get rid of/leave behind anything that does not serve you. Listen to your heart and not other’s people’s opinions if they bring you down.

 

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Q: What would you like others to learn from your story?

A: I would like others to know that you can start over at any time. The things you want are within reach if you visualize and work toward them. Be patient and work in baby steps.

 

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Q: What does feminism mean to you?

A: Feminism is important to me. I think a lot of people can take feminism as a negative thing, but I see it as being proud of being a woman, or (if you are not a woman) recognizing all of the positive and beautiful things that women bring to the table.

 

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Q: Why should more women take roles in business?

A: It has taken a few decades, but there are more and more women in business now than ever before! We are equal inhabitants of this Earth and should be involved in all of the things we’ve created as a society.

 

You can reach Brittany via email at: Brittthatcher314@gmail.com   or  on her instagram @BlissfullyBritt_. She is trained in Aerial Yoga and floor yoga and is available for one-on-one sessions or group sessions! Feel free to contact her about questions, inquiries, or to just say hello! 🙂

Professional photos: Credit to Dennis Pike Photography

 

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Woman Wednesday: Lucia

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Q and A with Lucia, Montgomery County, Maryland 

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“From my story and from my family story, I hope that others, especially women, are empowered to keep dreaming and to not lose hope even if there are many obstacles in the way. Because by achieving their dreams, they will inspire a new generation of women to keep dreaming and succeeding.”

 

Q: What is something that you are passionate about?

A: My end goal has always been and will always be to create a positive impact and change. One thing that has always run in parallel to my academic career and now my professional career is giving back to society the opportunities I was able to access. Part of that drive has been a result of my own story and that of my parents and grandparents. My family really epitomizes the American dream. I came here when I was five, and I was able to see my parents transcend economic barriers. When we moved here from Peru via the Visa lottery, my parents had to start from scratch all the economic progress they had achieved in Peru.

 

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: Growing up, there was always a focus on education and that education was the pathway to success. It was something that they ingrained in me. I was also able to see the different barriers to better education. I went to a high school in Florida that had about 950 students. The majority of the student were from families of lower income or immigrant families. Additionally, when I was in school, because my family’s economic status was still improving, I was not able to afford additional tutoring classes or SAT prep. On the other hand, by the time my parents and younger sisters moved to Maryland, our economic status had changed. My younger sisters had better opportunities and were able to afford to access additional educational help. They were also able to attend a good public school (ranked one of the top public schools in the country). All three of us, however, have been much luckier than my grandmothers were. Both were very smart but because they were born in different place and a different time, both never finished elementary school. My grandfathers were able to at least finish high school. As a result of being a witness to those stories, I want to help bring access to better education, especially in remote areas of Peru. In those remote geographical areas, children, especially girls, are still not able to attend school properly or there is not enough funding to provide good schools and good learning environments.

 

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Q: What is your current career?

A: I am currently a securities analyst. My path to the financial industry was non-traditional. I graduated with a biomedical engineering degree, with a focus on Computational Biology, from Johns Hopkins University. I always thought until my final year that I would be working within that industry. I thought I would be modeling biological system. It was an industry that was challenging and had a lot of potential to create impact and change. However, my path changed due to my senior design project. During senior year, I worked on a design team focused on developing a medical device that would help deliver a new developed drug to rheumatoid arthritis patients at home. Because our team was composed of five people and I had an artistic eye, I ended up taking a role that was specific to market research. It was as if a whole new world had opened up.

 

Q: Did you ever imagine that you would get into finance?

A: Numbers had always been something I was comfortable with but the application had always stayed within engineering. Working on my design project, specifically on the marketing side, showed me that numbers could be applied in a different setting and still be fun and challenging. It led me to pursue my M.B.A so that I could better understand finance and marketing. This led me to my current role.
But for me, my path doesn’t stop within the financial realm. It is a stepping stone to the dream I have had since I was in High school, which is to create a for-profit social enterprise.

 

Q: Is there another influence in your life that has made you passionate about this goal?

A: Additionally, I am driven to want to have a positive impact on society because of my faith. A lot of people tend to become uncomfortable at the mention of religion and faith. Often, people are surprised that I am religious, because I seem open to things that seem to be the antithesis of what they associate with my faith. But for me, it is that faith that leads me to have hope that even with all the injustices there can be a better tomorrow and a better society, one where people have equity regardless of gender and race. It is in part what drives me to give back to society and why I am inspired to start a social enterprise focused on education.
As I said, I am driven to continue learning and dreaming because of my family story. My family is always my source of inspiration and my grandmothers and mother are my strong female role models. They didn’t let their circumstance define them and continued to pursue their dream. My grandmother, my mom’s mom, wanted to ensure that her daughters and her children were educated. My grandfather, who was a traditionalist, wanted my mom and aunts and uncles to work to provide an additional income to the family. But my grandmother refused to concede on that point. As a result, all her children are educated and all her grandchildren will be educated. She never stopped dreaming; even now, she lets me know her hopes for the future. From my story and from my family story, I hope that others, especially women, are empowered to keep dreaming and to not lose hope even if there are many obstacles in the way. Because by achieving their dreams, they will inspire a new generation of women to keep dreaming and succeeding.
When I think of how things were for both my grandmothers (and grandfathers) and how things are for me, I realize we have come far but that there is still more work to be done. I know that there is still an imbalance in power.

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Q: What are your thoughts on feminism?

A: For me, feminism is helping women access the right tools to be able to achieve their dreams and aspirations. It is empowering women to continue dreaming, regardless of the age. It is also about teaching men that empowering women is not a zero sum game; by empowering women, we all win. Only by talking about it and by addressing the barriers that women have in society can we close the gap. More women need to join industries that are male dominated and men need to join industries that are associated with women, such as nursing and child care. Only by shifting what we perceive to be feminine and masculine and by empowering women with the right tools (access to education and positions of leadership) will society change.
I am proud to be a feminist but I know that the word still carries negative connotation for many people, including other women. I hope that in the future everyone is proud to say, “I am a feminist.”

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Woman Wednesday: Valerie

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Q and A with Valerie, Baltimore County, Maryland

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“I always knew I wanted to do something to help others. It’s just in my nature to willingly give all of myself to a specific task, idea, or person.”

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Q: What is something that you are passionate about? 

A: One of my biggest passions is helping others. I always knew I wanted to do something to help others. It’s just in my nature to willingly give all of myself to a specific task, idea, or person. I have been working two jobs as a full time teacher and part time bartender for about two years now. Anyone who is a teacher knows how rewarding the job is. Anyone who is a teacher in an urban area knows how challenging it is. I have so many stories you would not believe unless you are a teacher in an urban area. It is my job to teach these kids. It is my job to not only teach these kids academics, but teach them how to be a strong, independent, and a leader in their community.

 

Q: What is a typical day for you?

A: During the school day, I take on many roles: teacher, friend, mother, counselor, mentor, …you name it, I do it. Whatever I can do to make my students successful, you better believe I make it happen. I teach in a Title 1 school in Baltimore. I accepted the job knowing that it was going to be challenging, but nothing could have prepared me for what I got myself into. I was tested and doubted. Many times, I doubted myself. I would run to the bathroom crying,  “I can’t do this. I’m not cut out for this,” but every time, I had to suck it up and head back in there, because I had all these children counting on me.

All I want to do is to make a difference and do what I love. A lot of time, my lessons turned into life lessons that my parents taught me. Some students weren’t as lucky to learn these at home. As challenging as it is, I wouldn’t trade it for any other profession.

I hope to make a positive impact on my students each day, and I hope they know that they make a positive impact on me. Teaching is not only my career, but my entire life. I remember on Mother’s Day, one of my kids asked me if I had children. I said, “Yes, 29.” I was surprised to see that they came back with flowers. These kids have changed my life, and I will remember them forever. I am lucky to have a career where I feel loved and appreciated by my students when I walk in my classroom. Sometimes they have a funny way of showing it, but when it comes down to it, they know I love them with all of my heart, and I know they love me. I have learned so much over the past two years teaching that I will carry with me in my everyday life.

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Q: What do you want others to take away from your story?

A: My whole life I’ve been surrounded by strong women who fight for what is right and for what they want for their future. There are so many amazing women out there getting shit done. I only wish that women continue to stand together and speak their truth. My advice for women is to remember when times get tough, toughen up. Just know that you are stronger than you think you are. I think sometimes we forget that we can make a difference, and we can make anything happen with enough drive.

 

 

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Woman Wednesday: Kidron

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Q and A with Kidron, Baltimore County, Maryland

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 “I was born in a very modest household, the daughter of a Financial Planner and a Phlebotomist (chemistry nerd). In many ways, I reflect characteristics of my parents, but I am very much like my father. I have always been told that I am “very bright,” but it wasn’t until I entered the world of finance that I felt I had finally found my place. I worked long hours…for less-than-ideal pay, applied myself to learn as much as I could, and over the years, I finally began to progress up the corporate ladder.

 

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Q: Tell us about your younger years.

A: I grew up in a small town in Pikesville, Maryland. I was scrawny, spunky, had a knack for making up bad jokes (that I thought were great), and I was good with my hands. According to  my mom, I spent a good deal of time “taking things apart” when I was younger, but also often putting them back together. The kids in the neighborhood also considered me a sort of “connoisseur” of the monkey bars, and a master of broken bicycle chains. My mom interpreted these inclinations as signs of a future “Mechanical Engineer.”

 

 

Q: What was high school like for you?

A: To put things eloquently, I struggled like everyone else. I was pretty awkward, didn’t fit in any particular social circles, and didn’t seem to have a natural gift for any of my classes. With the exception of two subjects: honors pre-calculus and a technology glass, I was pretty status- quo. I would not really characterize myself as a “math-kid” either. I loved algebra, and other studies, to which I could attribute logical flow akin to building Legos. Otherwise, high school was a time I would never assign as “pleasant”.

 

 

Q: What was the next step for you after high school?

A: My first “Big-Girl” job was working at as a Digital Life Sales specialist at age 17 for a big-name electronics store (shout out to my mom for encouraging me to apply for that job). Believe it or not, I’ve always had a “knack”, or natural proclivity, towards computer technology—as long as I can remember.

 

As shy as I was, I actually ended up being quite the strong salesperson. I knew hardware, software, operating systems, and cell phones like the back of my hand. I knew the products, I was charming, and I recommended practical solutions without over-selling. I was willing to teach the customers to help them make an educated decision about their purchase. I began to thrive, and before long I was promoted to “team lead,” in a full-time employment capacity.

 

This was also the time in my life when I was supposed to be in college. I graduated high school (barely) on time, and enrolled at a private liberal arts school, with the intention of becoming an Interior designer. I thought I could make a decent living on interior decoration, and I had enough demonstrable math skills to comply with the calculation-aspects of the job.

 

However, once I got to school, it wasn’t long before I started to realize I wasn’t that great at being an artist; and that making a comfortable living would probably require an advanced degree, and years before the salary was commiserate with my experience. I also started to advance more and more in my baby-career as a salesperson. I enjoyed it, seemed to have grasped some form of popularity never previously experienced, and I did well for a kid out of high school.

 

It wasn’t long before I was promoted at work, and the allure of obtaining that Bachelor’s Degree in Arts faded away; during the same time, footing the tuition bill for that full-time private education became something my parents couldn’t afford. I became disinterested enough to drop out.

 

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Q: Do you believe dropping out of college was the best decision for you?

A: I would not necessarily say that I “regret” dropping out of school then, but returning to continue my education further on in life certainly has not been any easier than when I was a relatively careless 19-year old. Thankfully, the skillsets that I had acquired and developed working as a salesperson had universal application in the finance world. In the fall, I was recruited to start my first professional position, working an accounts receivable role for a company in the Baltimore area. I still didn’t have a degree, but I was good with numbers, excellent with spreadsheets, and learned financial concepts easily. Working for this company helped me develop critical thinking and analysis skills, that were unsatisfied by the collections-oriented position. I spent about 18 months with that company before I moved on to other opportunities.

 

I knew that tenure and consistency is important for advancement in the world of finance. I sacrificed for these positions. I worked long hours… for less-than-ideal pay, applied myself to learn as much as I could, and over the years, I finally began to progress up the corporate ladder.

 

There is an invisible line between the “associate” and “analyst” experience leveled position (which generally required a Bachelor’s Degree of some sort) that was rapidly approaching, and I it knew would be challenging to cross. In order to move beyond billing and collections, I had to be able to prove I had the skills required to be an analyst. I knew that would be difficult without a 4-year degree, but I also learned that sometimes, those 3-day long training sessions for Microsoft Excel and PowerPoint skills carried weight in the eyes of managers and employers—because experience is also valuable. I signed up for company-sponsored, industry-approved classes, I did IT hardware and software certifications through our employer’s online training center as often as I could; and I kept a running list of everything I did. I also amassed a number of training hours that qualified for “Continuing Professional Education” credits, which is a huge plus. No matter how long I worked at any contact position, I made sure I had some form of evidence to show what skills I learned and what I achieved. I also learned on the job, sitting behind computer monitors. I learned to identify, explain, and resolve account variances. I read lengthy sales agreements, servicing agreements, tax publications, and experience in multiple aspects of the finance industry. I learned how to implement short term and long-term solutions through the use of process automation.

 

I also taught myself how to program, predominantly in Visual Basic for Application. It’s a scripting language that’s often used to display data or calculate data and automate processes or routine tasks. That was one of the skills I learned over the years, and programming was an effective tool I could use to gain a deeper understanding of the finance world. It was also a fun way to build things.

Eventually, I went back to school. I decided to change routes a little from my original Arts-direction, to pursuing an Accounting Major.

School is still an ongoing struggle for me, but I am happy to say that I am finally about to obtain my first Degree in Business Accounting (Certificate), have surpassed the Analyst experience level, and have become an intermediate-level Developer/Programmer/Financial Modeler in the finance industry. I am also enrolled in another University to resume my path to my Bachelor’s Degree, with a Master’s Certificate in Data Analysis on the side.

 

I landed my dream job as an “Engineer” like my mom thought I would be, except I build financial models for structured finance deals on a digital platform.

 

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Q: What do you want others to take from your story?

A: I’ve realized that in my life, for me to overcome what holds me back, and to be happy, I have to let some things rest in the shadows. If they don’t contribute to the betterment of myself and/ or humanity, they probably aren’t worth holding onto. I decided I had to push forward for what I wanted (and deserved) if I had to be the Little Engineer who Coded.

Work hard and persevere.

 

 

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Woman Wednesday: Laura

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Q and A with Laura, Morris County, New Jersey

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“I try to challenge myself daily, to develop different parts of who I am and who I want to be. I’m a work in progress. We’re all works in progress, and I think that’s a really beautiful thing.”

 

One of my father’s hobbies was photography when I was younger, and I couldn’t help but want to try it out myself. In my preteens, I taught myself how to use a digital camera and shortly after, got into film photography. This jump-started my passion for photography. When I won a photography competition against a bunch of older women, at the age of 13, I became hooked. That photo is actually one of my favorite non-portraits to this day—a bumble bee on top of a flower in a Vermont garden. Now, I primarily like taking portraits. There’s nothing like helping someone realize their beauty and potential through a camera lens. Capturing pure happiness is my favorite.


 

Q: What advice would you give to women?

A: Being yourself is a powerful thing.

 

Q: What does feminism mean to you?

A: Feminism to me points to the big picture of equality and the ability to express who you are confidently without judgments or negative forces upon you.

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Q: Why should more women be in business or male-dominated fields?

A: Businesses thrive when different views and perspectives are brought to the table. Many types of people, including women, are needed to contribute diverse valuable ideas and opinions. This is especially the case when women are the target market. Women know women best.

 

Q: What are you passionate about?

A: I knew I wanted to make a positive impact in others’ lives for a career, so I decided that studying psychology would be one way to start on that path. I got my BS in psychology and a minor in photography at a fairly small liberal arts school in central PA. I was lucky enough to study abroad due to my school requiring its students to have a cross-cultural experience as part of their core curriculum. I took the opportunity to go to the place I dreamed of going to since I was a little girl—Sydney, Australia! The beaches, lifestyle, and wildlife enticed me and it surely didn’t disappoint! It was an incredibly exciting and rewarding experience that I’ll never forget. I grew immensely during those 4.5 months by pushing myself out of my comfort zone as much as possible.

When I chose to study psychology in college, I knew that I would have the most job opportunities if I went to graduate school afterwards, so that’s exactly what I did! I ended up getting my Masters in Social Work, with a clinical concentration, from a large public institution the following academic year. During my master’s program, I was lucky enough to have two amazing field placements. First, I worked with high school students doing one-on-one therapy addressing various issues including anxiety, depression, family concerns, relationship issues, and whatever else the students brought to their session. I also co-facilitated a bereavement group with another counselor, which focused on all types of losses the students were experiencing.

After my first field placement, I became fascinated with the idea of working with college students and sought out opportunities to do so. I landed at a small liberal arts college near my hometown and their counseling center is where I fell in love with working with the young adult population.

What’s even more exciting is that this position eventually led to my current position as a learning support specialist. I now work with college students with disabilities that impact learning, primarily doing academic coaching. I meet with about 25 students for an hour per week to address any concerns they have that could impact their academic success. During these meetings, we go through all of their classes, review their grades, go over upcoming assignments, discuss learning strategies and skills that may be helpful, and sometimes do some work together. Another part of my job is co-facilitating an interpersonal skills group with the same population. The students decide what they want to talk about during that weekly group, but topics often include friendship or roommate issues, relationship concerns, academic concerns, family issues, and stress. It’s a space for students to discuss whatever is on their minds that week.

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Q: How did your younger years impact who you are today?

A: At 5’6” by the time I was ~10 years old, I was a bit physically awkward and wasn’t particularly comfortable with myself on the inside either. This was the case for all of elementary school and most of middle school. I considered myself a misfit who was trying way too hard to“fit in,” and I was compensating who I was in order to try to do so.

That all changed towards the end of 7th grade. I had had enough trying to be something I wasn’t—it was so clearly not paying off. A switch kind of went off in me that I needed to start doing things that were best for me, rather than what was going to make me “fit in.” This was when I started to find happiness in who I was and in my social life. I encourage all young girls to embrace who they truly are—there’s happiness in that.

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Q: What is something you want others to take away from your story?

A: The takeaway from my story is that doing what is best for you is the right path for you because you’re the expert on yourself. And when you work on yourself and you’re the best for yourself, you’re also the best for others. A perk of this is that people are attracted to others that are confident in themselves.

 

 

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