Woman Wednesday: Helen

 


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For more information about me:
Helen Edwards, International Author & Entrepreneur
Book Available on Amazon & Barnes N Nobles

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Woman Wednesday: Diana


Q and A with Diana from Kenya, Africa

“Great things happen outside of your comfort zone.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I am Diana Maiyo, a top-rated virtual assistant in Kenya, Africa, who is also passionate about educating women on healthy hair care routines.

I have explored careers in a variety of industries and realized that my purpose in life is to add value to women’s lives on a daily basis.

Being a virtual assistant has enabled me to achieve this as I get to work with so many amazing women from all over the world.

I absolutely love what I do as I also get to learn a lot from the women I assist virtually. My virtual work has enabled me to learn different business practices from across the world and also get to learn of the many cultures out there.

I can confidently say I have found where I belong and that is with the leading ladies in business worldwide.

[Regarding what I do as a virtual assistant], I help with calendar management, social media maintenance, email management, running social accounts for businesses, scheduling appointments, running group chats for businesses, and data entry. Those are just some of the services I offer and have been providing.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I come from a family of six and growing up, my older brother was my best friend. He would let me tag along whenever he went out playing with his friends, and this kept me active and resilient all through my life.

My mum was a businesswoman, and I guess that’s where I got my entrepreneurial spirit from. My community didn’t believe much in educating the girl children, but my mum ensured that the four of us went to school no matter the obstacles she encountered.

[My mum] taught me that I can be just as good as my two brothers and excel in whatever I set my mind on as long as I stay focused. She’s been supportive to date and still champions equal rights for both genders.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Living is all about experiencing new things, going out of your comfort zone, and pushing the boundaries.

If you stay in the same circle, repeating the same cycle…day in and day out…how do you expect anything to change? How do you expect to grow? To learn new skills? To meet new people?

Great things happen outside of your comfort zone.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Feminism means supporting and empowering other women and not degrading men while at it.


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Woman Wednesday: Sabrina H.


Q and A with Sabrina H. from Oliver, British Columbia, Canada

“Growth begins when you commit to moving forward before everything feels perfect.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: What lights me up is building or reshaping workplaces into something efficient and effective, yet still fair and resolute.

A company must grow, stay profitable, and keep its edge, but the people within it deserve the same chance to grow in confidence, skill, and earning power.

My psychology degree gave me the human lens and my years in HR provided the systems foundation.

I help people and businesses succeed by creating systems and conversations where fairness and accountability can exist in the same room.

That balance is what I’m most passionate about.

When it’s right, everyone moves forward together and the business grows, and so do the people within it.

Smart Solutions was born from that intersection, after years of watching how companies rise or fall based on how they choose, support, and value their people.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I grew up in a home led by strong women.

My mom raised me on her own, with my grandmother close by.

Together, they taught me that speaking up, thinking for yourself, and finding your own way are necessary, even when it goes against the grain.

That mindset became the foundation for how I work and lead today.

Learning has always been my way forward, so I went back to school as an adult and earned my degree in psychology while raising my two sons independently.

That time demanded focus and discipline, and it showed me how powerful education can be when it connects to real life experience.

By the time I finished my degree, I had fifteen years of administrative experience and a solid background in project management, operations, and logistics.

HR became the natural next step, a place to blend human understanding with structure and strategy. The last two decades have refined those skills and brought me to this point, where experience and knowledge come together in work worth sharing.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: If there’s one truth I’ve learned, it’s that waiting for certainty only delays progress.

Growth begins when you commit to moving forward before everything feels perfect.

It may sound counterintuitive to someone who builds systems, but iteration is part of reality.

Holding out until version one feels flawless only makes it harder to reach version two, three, or four. That lesson was shaped and reinforced when I went back to school as an adult. It wasn’t about timing or convenience; it was simply about starting, and then starting again, until I reached the finish line.

It took many years to complete my degree because life often demanded my attention elsewhere, and each pause made returning feel more daunting.

In the end, I finished with a GPA of 3.28 and a clear understanding that progress is built one imperfect step at a time.


Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
To me, feminism is about equality.

It means that women should have the same freedom to define success on their own terms, whether that means leading a company, raising a family, starting over, creating something new, or doing all of it within one lifetime.

The strong women I grew up around did not receive the same support or opportunities as men, even though they were often the ones holding everything together.

Watching that shaped how I see the world and taught me that opportunity rarely shows up uninvited.

You build it, one decision at a time.

That same belief guides how I work today.

Now, in mid-life, feminism feels less about demanding a place at the table and more about using your voice once you are there.

It is about standing in your experience with confidence and not waiting for permission to be heard.


MORE ABOUT SABRINA: After years of watching businesses succeed or struggle based on how they chose to support their employees, it felt like it was time to take everything I had learned and turn it into something practical and lasting. That is where Smart Solutions by Sabrina comes from. Starting this business reflects what I value most: fairness, growth, and the belief that people and systems work best when they evolve together. It feels right to be building from a place where experience and intention finally align.

Thank you for reading!

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Website: www.sabrinasmartsolutions.ca

Email: info@sabrinasmartsolutions.ca

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Woman Wednesday: Shellece


Q and A with Shellece from the Rocky Mountains, Utah

“I remember one week we had $16 for groceries. Those difficult few years were extremely stressful, but I gained some practical skills that I appreciate and use now. ”


Q: Tell us about yourself.

A: Hey, I am Shellece Durfee! I am an artist and photographer. I was born and raised in Utah near the Rocky Mountains. I am a mom of two cute little girls, Lily (age 7) and Mariah (age 6). I just celebrated my 10th anniversary with my husband, Shea. I earned my bachelor’s degree in fine art from Utah State University. I teach painting classes, and I paint custom portraits. I also love newborn photography.

When my babies were born, I stayed home with them and we had to live extremely frugally because we were living on less than $20,000 a year and my husband was still in school. As a matter of fact, I thought we were rich when my husband got a raise to $20,000 a year. I worked my tail end off doing meal planning, budgeting, sewing clothes for my girls, and taking the best pictures I could of my babies. I learned how to make bread to save money. We basically lived off of homemade bread, egg burritos, macaroni, and hot dogs for about four years. I felt like I was drowning and I was scrambling trying to think of ways to make some money on the side. I remember one week we had $16 for groceries. I had some food storage, so we made it work. I spent occasional weeknights drawing and painting when my girls were in bed and I had friends and family who paid me to paint custom portraits of their loved ones and I taught some art lessons. Other good friends paid me to do some photography for them. Those difficult few years were extremely stressful, but I gained some practical skills that I appreciate and use now.

I am in a local artists guild and I regularly practice painting and photography. I would love to illustrate my own children’s picture books, license my designs, and teach online art courses in the near future.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: As a child, I experienced neglect and abuse in my home. I used art, walking around in nature, and playing the piano to survive the abuse and feel okay in my life. Being creative gave me an outlet for relieving stress. Art was one of the things I enjoyed and it was something I could control during a very isolating time in my life. Creativity brought me a sense of accomplishment and joy. I continue to develop my talents because it still brings me a feeling of accomplishment and it is an important part of me. I think there is a lot of power in being creative. I would not be the person I am today if I hadn’t had these tools for reducing my anxiety and calming my mind. I would love to help others feel the relief I have felt by creating.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I have learned that keeping my mind and body active during difficult phases of my life has given me the will to hope for better times and to make the most of the difficult challenges we go through. Pursuing creative endeavors helped me stay optimistic and okay during the hardest parts of my life. I can take negative emotions and energy and turn them into something beautiful, and I think everyone is creative and artistic in one way or another. We just have to give ourselves permission to do it.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
Feminism means assuring that women have equal financial, educational, and social opportunities that men. As women become more celebrated in the world I think it is very important that we continue to facilitate respect and dignity toward men simultaneously. Men and women are and should be considered equal and treated humanely. So I suppose from my perspective feminism means humanity for all.

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Woman Wednesday: Moriah


Q and A with Moriah from Brooklyn, New York, living in Hampton, Virginia

“…we have the greatest gift and honor in being able to control our thoughts, our perceptions of our circumstances...”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I am incredibly passionate about my work with Black women—helping them to see themselves, in all their potential, but most importantly, in all they already are!

I found this passion as I navigated through different therapist roles at various agencies, but the spark was lit tremendously as I started to take a mental note of the population that I naturally gravitated towards the most—when I didn’t feel like I was “working” but simply supporting—and the burst of joy I’d feel every time a Black woman shared with me that they felt so much better (more confident) about themselves, and less shame, guilt, and inward confusion.

I found myself having visions of my future, and feeling extremely energized and inspired as I saw more and more people who looked like me, reaching the phase that I’d describe now as self-actualization (read up on “Maslow’s hierarchy of needs,” if you’d like more on this). It gives me life, as some people say! 

Currently, I am focusing on creative ways to reach, inspire, and empower more Black women, using the gifts I feel blessed to have.

I have already launched my YouTube channel, which is a dedicated safe, resourceful, and validating space created specifically for Black women, and I write whenever I feel inspired and share.

I will say, though, that it is my one-on-one conversations, be it in sessions, “run-ins” with other Black women that I have in my day to day, or even with friends and family, that I value most. To me, it’s nothing like those intimate spaces where vulnerability shines bright, and each person I encounter has an opportunity to feel seen, heard, valued, and appreciated. I believe it’s my calling. 

I love that I get to do this! What I’ve also learned to love in doing this “work” externally with others, is that it also causes me to reflect more often and continue doing the work within myself. 


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: My younger years were very much grounded in faith, family, culture, and education.

If I’m being honest though, there were also multiple experiences of fear and anxiety—only I didn’t realize that’s what it was then. 

I was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, and unfortunately, I didn’t always have the safest experiences usually when leaving school—I will also never forget what 9-11 was like as a 4th grader living there, and this still impacts my experiences when I need to fly…but more on that another time!

I remember my group of friends and I, especially in middle school, would travel in packs and had to be “ready” always to physically defend ourselves (fight) because there were often others around from other schools (usually older kids), who didn’t have the best intentions and were looking to “jump” and stir up trouble with those of us who were younger or at other schools.

It wasn’t the most fun time in those instances, but it taught me early on, that even though I had supportive and safe parents and others who loved and cared for me, that there may be others in life that I may encounter who may not have the best intentions and I’d need to protect myself (and sometimes those I love and care for) in those instances.

Those are tough lessons to learn as a child, and I’m thankful that I’m here, despite the odds, and that I didn’t allow those experiences to taint my view of everyone.

I also encountered friends, mentors, and people (during that time, and as I got older) who were beautiful souls, good-hearted, and showed themselves to have good intentions.

My parents always kept me, and my brothers, grounded as well, which allowed for me to still see the good in people while still remaining vigilant, and even prayerful.

Even while those difficult experiences occurred, I was still able to be very active, and my parents encouraged creative outlets, which I chose through dance, song, and even a little bit of drawing and theatre, particularly while in high school.

I attended and graduated early from Brooklyn School for Music and Theatre with an Advanced Regents Diploma as Salutatorian of my high school class, which afforded me the opportunity to deliver a speech to my graduating class—an experience that mustered a fondness of public speaking, and it’s when I realized I was pretty good at it too!

I remember being a very inquisitive child who loved learning from and connecting with others intimately, and I truly fell in love with the arts (of all kinds) during my teen years. 


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Something valuable I’ve learned that I share often nowadays with others and I would love for EVERYONE to know is that, although life’s circumstances, the initial emotions we experience in our humanity, and even society often reminds us of what we do not have control over, we have the greatest gift and honor in being able to control our thoughts, our perceptions of our circumstances, our long-term emotional experiences, our words, our responses, our behaviors, how we treat others, how we treat (and speak to) ourselves, how we choose to raise our children, how we show up in the world, and all things pertaining to ourselves. The more we focus on that fact, the better off we are, the healthier and happier we are, and thus, the better the world can become. 

I want others to learn, from my story, to love themselves, so they can show more love outwardly. I also want others to know that they can do ANYTHING they put their mind to; I just hope that what they put their mind to is for the greater good! 


Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A:
To me, feminism is about seeing the value in and embracing womanhood, recognizing our rights, strengths, and uniqueness as women, and confidently walking in our innate (God-given) power. 


MORE ABOUT MORIAH: I was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York; however, for the last 15 years, I’ve lived in the state of Virginia. I currently live in Hampton, Virginia, with my loving husband of 8 years and vibrant 4 year old son. 

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