Woman Wednesday: Cindy

Q and A with Cindy from Murphy, North Carolina

“…we can choose to approach challenges with an open mind and a sense of curiosity, knowing that every experience is a chance to become stronger and more compassionate.”

Q: What are you passionate about?

A: I’m a wife, momma, and granny for my beautiful grandchildren ages 27 months to 20 years old. I enjoy my tea hot or cold, and my wine clean! I’m a caregiver, a good friend, and an aromatherapy enthusiast! I have more than 30 years of combined experience as an exceptional needs specialist, a teacher mentor, and a personal and professional development consultant. I’ve provided in-person services and resources to educators, parents, and related service providers in a myriad of settings.

In 2018, I began to transition to online coaching and consulting to accommodate some shifts in my personal responsibilities and to support other compassionate, overworked women who are deeply disillusioned and tempted to throw in the towel, personally or professionally. Through guidance and structured social-emotional learning frameworks, I help educators and service providers address daily stressors with an approach that is manageable and sustainable. My mission is to reduce the massive exhaustion epidemic that is crippling our communities by providing realistic ways to prevent and recover from personal and career-related burnout.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: Growing up, my parents instilled in me a deep appreciation for education and encouraged me to pursue a degree after high school. Initially, I aspired to become a nurse, but the college I attended didn’t offer nursing programs. Undeterred, I decided to pursue a degree in elementary education, which laid the foundation for my understanding of human development, effective communication, classroom management, curriculum development, and empathy.

After completing my 4-year degree in elementary education, I furthered my education by earning a master’s degree in special education. This advanced degree provided me with a profound understanding of individualized instruction, diverse learning styles, collaboration, and ethical considerations. Combining my academic background with practical experience, I developed a unique coaching approach that blends evidence-based techniques with a compassionate, client-centered focus. Whether clients seek to expand their horizons, overcome challenges, or maximize their potential, I’m dedicated to helping them achieve their goals and live their best lives.

As a seasoned coach, I specialize in guiding compassionate, resourceful, and driven individuals toward transformative outcomes aligned with their immediate and long-term goals. Through tailored guidance, strategies, and support, I empower clients to initiate manageable, sustainable, and fulfilling routines while addressing any concerns with empathy and professionalism. Together, we embark on a journey of growth, resilience, and newfound confidence.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I’ve discovered the power of reframing our responsibilities, seeing them not as burdens but as opportunities for growth and learning. It’s about facing adversity with courage and resilience, without losing hope or becoming cynical. Instead, we can choose to approach challenges with an open mind and a sense of curiosity, knowing that every experience is a chance to become stronger and more compassionate.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?

A: I’ll admit, I haven’t given much thought to what feminism is. It hasn’t been a top priority for me. But I’ve come to understand that feminism isn’t about superiority or exclusion. It’s about creating a society where everyone’s voice is heard and respected. It’s about recognizing that each of us brings valuable perspectives and strengths to the table and working towards a more inclusive and just world.