Woman Wednesday: AnnaLisa


Q and A with AnnaLisa from Spanaway, Washington

“I learn by and through mistakes and failures, and when I take care of myself, I have the strength I need to get through all of life’s challenges.”


Q: What are you passionate about?

A: I’m a neurodiverse creator and I love everything art! My hobbies include gardening, permaculture, urban gardening, learning everything about everything, sculpting, budgeting, home decor, painting, printmaking, and sewing. I just love making, creating, and growing. I love doing research!

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I grew up in different places around Washington State. I’ve been an artist and entrepreneur for as long as I can remember. I spent most of my downtime drawing or creating as a child. I’m a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. My faith is a huge part of my life, my choices, my self-worth, and my community. I spent much of my time in my youth doing church service, activities, and learning about my divine worth. My mom is very creative. As a child, she made many beautifully crafted decor for our home. She spent a lot of her time learning new crafts. Painting, crocheting, sewing, woodworking, you name it she did it. I loved watching her create things she wanted. Money was tight, but she didn’t let it hold her back. I found this inspiring. I wanted to be just like her. She was my mentor and my example. She inspired me to create. I loved making things.

When I was in the third grade, I made some little potholders to sell. I wanted to be independent and getting a job was my ticket. As I got older, I started teaching myself to oil paint with my mom’s old kit. I would spend hours in the basement painting flowers, planets, and whatever I found interesting. One year I got it into my head that I needed a job and asked the local flower shop if I could apprentice. I was 14, she said no. I was devastated but I didn’t give up. I got myself a babysitting job and that satisfied me until I was old enough to really get a job. Art being my passion, I spent a lot of time learning about different styles. I fell in love with impressionism and decided I wanted to study art in France. I began studying French and learning the different possible ways I could travel. I tried getting into a foreign exchange program, but I found it was way more expensive than I would be able to earn. I shifted gears and focused on my art. I took every class I could in high school, received the most artistically talented award, and decided I would study art at university. Service is an important part of my life. In high school, I volunteered at the local food bank, served as a school senator, volunteered in a program that helped the students who didn’t focus on sports to gain recognition, and served in a mentorship program.

I met my love in high school and after he served a full-time service mission for our church, we got married. I received a bachelor of arts in art education, studied French, traveled to Europe, married my high school sweetheart, and started a family. My Europe experience was incredible. I lived with a French host family and taught at various locations throughout Brussels, Belgium. I had so many adventures and during the two weeks I had vacation from my teaching job, I backpacked to Western Europe. I made my way through Bruges, Paris, Versailles, London, Rome, Venice, and Geneva. I visited every museum I could find and took some incredible reference photos. Young family life was quite challenging. My spouse and I started with $2,000 in our pockets and worked hard to get scholarships and finish school while having children. After we both graduated, we moved back to Washington to live with my parents while we looked for work. My husband got a job in Washington, and we have been here ever since. My master plan was to start teaching art when I had all my kids in school, but since life doesn’t always do what is expected, I found myself needing to homeschool my four kids. I didn’t know if I would have four neurodiverse children, or how much of my time and attention they would need. I decided I could give them the support that I couldn’t afford to get them. I couldn’t get the support through the schools that they needed, and I dove in with both feet to learn everything I could about how to support them. I helped my son with speech therapy and learned all about ABA therapy to support my daughter until I was able to get an actual therapist. I’m so grateful I had the comprehension and ability to learn so much and offer support that I wouldn’t otherwise have had access to. Now the kids are older, I have two in school and two at home. This gave me a little extra time to start my art business. So, three weeks ago, I launched my art website and got into my first exhibition. I have been making art and networking on social media with all my downtime.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Through it all, I have learned how not to sweat the small stuff. Life is full of things beyond my control. Being prepared is better than worrying; I learn by and through mistakes and failures, and when I take care of myself, I have the strength I need to get through all of life’s challenges. I cannot have more time, and the only thing I truly have is the present.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism, to me, is believing women can be whatever and whomever they need to be. We are only limited by our goals and imagination. Feminism is embracing our ability to nurture, love, and take care of our needs.

Woman Wednesday: Kally


Q and A with Kally fro
m Bayside, NY

“Knowing I’ve given someone the gift of unconditional love makes me feel very fulfilled.”


Q: What are you passionate about?

A: I’m actually an educational coach who works with special ed teachers with children with emotional needs and learning differences. Since my job is very demanding, the love of a puppy has helped me decompress after a long day at work. I became very passionate about helping other families find their dream dogs. I believe we all have a soulmate puppy, and I love playing matchmaker!

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: My grandmother, who was born and raised in Greece, was illiterate, and she really valued education, so she instilled this value in my mom. When we would visit, dogs were only aloud outside, and I loved spending time with them. Growing up, I always wanted a puppy, but my immigrant parents didn’t believe in having pets inside the home.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: The journey to finding my dream dog was super complex. I didn’t know where to start, and I had specific needs. I wanted a hypoallergenic pup and I have back issues, so I needed a toy-size pup. After searching on adoption websites for months, I finally got connected with a breeder and instantly connected with my Shiloh. I wanted to help other people find their dream dogs within a week. To make the process gratifying and to see the joy on their faces when they meet their puppy for the first time. Knowing I’ve given someone the gift of unconditional love makes me feel very fulfilled.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism to means equality. It means owning your feminine beauty while honoring your masculine side. It means tapping into your feminine soul as your guidance system to follow your heart and dreams. It also means allowing the amazing men around you to provide and protect for you, without losing your power and honoring them as well.

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Woman Wednesday: Sylvia M.


Q and A with Sylvia M. from San Antonio, Texas

“I would love for others to learn that our lives can change if we decide to change them. We are not a tree; we can change the direction of our lives!”


Q: What are you passionate about?

A: I’m passionate about helping women learn to love themselves now while working on a better version of themselves and building a community of women who empower one another. I started being a part of a women empowerment group called “Team Beauty” and because of their community, I was able to grow and learn to love myself and build self confidence. I currently have a nutrition shop where I host multiple events for women.

My husband and I have been married for 28 years.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I was raised by my hardworking parents who taught me to work for my dreams. I joined the United States Marine Corp at the age of 19 in the hopes of going to college. I started college, but I did not graduate because I could never pass the mathematics classes.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I learned that we were created to shine light in someone else’s darkness. This brings me true happiness. To be that hand that pulls a lady up from depression, anxiety, or whatever she is going through. I would love for others to learn that our lives can change if we decide to change them. We are not a tree; we can change the direction of our lives! We don’t have to make changes alone.

This one was of our pink days. We host on Wednesday nights. We include a 30 min workout following an empowerment activity.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism to me means being a strong, independent woman who fights for her dreams, yet loves with all her heart and soul and inspires other women to do the same.

This was our Annual Pink Party, where we celebrate and recognize our accomplishments either in weightloss or muscle gains.

Group: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100046824529378&mibextid=LQQJ4d

Woman Wednesday: Heather


Q and A with Heather from Adams, Massachusetts, United States

A lot of entrepreneurs and women in general, are always worried about what others will think. We are afraid of being judged. This fear keeps us from starting something or going all in on something.


Q: What are you passionate about?

A: What am I passionate about? That’s actually a hard one for me. I have so many things that I love doing but am passionate about?…hmm.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: Growing up, my parents worked their butts off to provide for my brother, sister, and myself. They worked long hours and sometimes multiple jobs. My father actually worked at the same place for the first 18 years after leaving high school and has worked for the town since he left there. My mother worked at a chain grocery store for almost as long as I have been alive. I definitely saw a strong work ethic from my parents.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I have always been a very hard-working person. I am never interested in settling. I spent too long as a kid and a teenager feeling like I was less than or being judged….I am not willing to let that rule me anymore. A lot of entrepreneurs and women in general, are always worried about what others will think. We are afraid of being judged. This fear keeps us from starting something or going all in on something. 

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: Feminism….At the risk of people, especially women, getting mad at me, I have never associated myself with feminism. It’s not because I don’t believe in equality, actually, it’s exactly the opposite. I feel that the term feminism is an ideal that is very narrowly focused on a specific vision of what gender equality is. To me, it seems mostly political. 

Woman Wednesday: Bea


Q and A with Bea from Budapest, Hungary

My curiosity took me on a journey that I never in my wildest dreams would have imagined.”


Q: Tell us about yourself.

A: After many years, I finally found a way to combine my passion for nutrition and health with my love for dogs–I am a Certified Holistic Pet Health Coach. I take the confusion and guesswork out of what and how to feed our dogs so they can thrive and live a long, happy, and healthy life. I started my health journey in 2020, shortly after my own health crisis. I had endometriosis with pain that’s hard to describe along with an unexpected surgery–in the middle of an extremely stressful period in my life. I felt defeated, and hopeless; I needed to figure out what happened and what led me here so I could be sure I never find myself in the same situation.

Upon researching endo, the effects of various diets, and supplements, I got more confused, and I just wanted to learn actual facts. So, I enrolled in the Nutritional Therapy Association’s program where I learned many fascinating things about our bodies, and the importance of a whole foods diet and had to privilege to work with several amazing clients to improve their gut and hormonal health. One morning as I was feeding my Scottie a cup of kibble, I thought could this really be the best way to feed my dog? Again, I wanted facts and found a certification program offered by holistic veterinarian Dr. Ruth Roberts. The course was so thorough, full of information, based on decades of experience–it made complete sense to me that cooking for my dog is the way to go if I want him to be around for many more years to come as his happy and healthy self. I now show dog parents how easy it is to prepare home-cooked food for their dogs and how much healthier and better it is than commercial kibble. We all want to do the best for our pets, to see them live as long as possible and be healthy and happy–there is so much we can do to improve the quality of their lives. And the best part is that it can be easy and affordable.

Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I grew up in Hungary–I was always very independent, loved going to the movies, and concerts and buying fancy perfumes, etc. I hated asking my mom for money, so I started working on the weekends and during the summers when I was 15. I have always enjoyed making my own money; it gave me a sense of freedom. My dad is a great cook and I have learned so much from him–he never measures anything, yet each dish always comes out perfect. The year I turned 21, I took a job at a summer camp in Pennsylvania. I had never sat on an airplane before, but all I ever wanted was to see New York City. Three years later (once I earned my bachelor’s degree at Budapest Business School), my US driver’s license listed an address in Brooklyn–I loved living there. I remember feeling like anything was possible; I could be and do whatever I want with my life. My curiosity took me on a journey that I never in my wildest dreams would have imagined.

Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Travel as much as possible, try all the local dishes, and take care of your health. (And your dog’s health!) I have always loved to travel, and I have been blessed with many opportunities to see the world. I enjoy activities big cities have to offer–people-watching on the NYC subway, two-steppin’ in an old Honky-Tonk in Austin, but I also love more remote locations whether it’s hiking the Rocky Mountains or enjoying the sun on a private beach in Akumal. I absolutely love savoring the different cultures through food! Seeing how different other places are, how people live, what they eat, and how different their typical schedule is gives me perspective and often, it makes me appreciate all that I have even more (and how easy I have it). To be able to fully enjoy these trips, I found that I needed a strong immune system and digestive health. Healing my gut transformed my life experience, cleared my mind, and made me stronger in many ways. And that’s true for dogs as well–feeding a species-appropriate diet (which is the opposite of kibble) can help rebalance the gut microbiome of our beloved pets too.

Q: What does feminism mean to you?
A: What feminism means to me is that I recognize my own value and my worth–before asking anyone else to do so. I am confident, I know what I bring to the table, and I approach situations from a place where the question is not whether I’m going to be accepted or not, but rather how I can contribute and collaborate with others. I think setting standards and boundaries for myself and those around me (and ultimately, for society) is very important–but it’s not easy. It’s not about hating men–to me, it’s much more about recognizing that other women around me are not competition, but allies and we can and should help each other get where we want to be. When we women respect and support each other; when we realize that when we work together (instead of being catty or trying to sabotage one another), we can achieve so much more. There is enough to go around for all of us.