Woman Wednesday: Elaine T.


Q and A with Elaine T., Nassau, Bahamas

“I have learned to never ignore your passion. When you are walking in your purpose, your passion will indeed bring value to those you are meant to serve.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I am passionate about the art of writing. My father took the television away from my siblings and I when we were very young. We were only allowed to read books! Because of this, I am familiar with what a good book is comprised of! This love for reading sparked my imagination and also generated a love for writing. I like to think of my writing as a divine energy that travels from the spiritual realm and into the physical through the portal of my fingers. This is why I started Authors in Action. Through courses, coaching, and ghostwriting, we help our clients to achieve their author potential through the power of self-publishing. I absolutely love the look of pure excitement on my clients’ faces when they hold their book in their hands for the first time. Watching them experience that “I can’t believe I did this!” moment is special and beyond uplifting. I was motivated to start Authors in Action due to the many who wanted to become published authors. I’m currently working on separating my coaching and ghostwriting into two separate entities. I have decided to do this because my ghostwriting packages are the most popular. Lots of executives, pastors, founders, etc. have amazing skills and knowledge that need to be shared with the world; however, they don’t have time to write! It brings me joy to help them be able to add another stream of income to their dynasty, share their knowledge, and achieve their goal of becoming a published author.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I grew up on books. I did not experience television until about four years ago. My school years consisted of my classmates laughing hysterically whenever I admitted that my family and I didn’t have a television. Yes, it was embarrassing, but now I am grateful. I didn’t experience being on the computer unsupervised until my senior high school days back in 2003. These were days when my mom allowed us to sneak in an hour or two whenever my dad was at work. Thanks Mummy! I loved shows like Desperate Housewives, Downton Abbey, and later on a series called Revenge. I still loved books. I will always embrace a good book. My favorite childhood authors were Enid Blyton, Ronald Dahl, Anne Martin, and Carolyn Keene. These authors took me on many memorable journeys through my imagination. This creativity translated across into my writing and gave me a newfound love and a unique way to express myself. In addition to reading, I did professional ballet classes. My father says this was one of the hobbies I took extremely seriously. Many may not know that I have completed the American Academy of Ballet Examinations with mostly gold medals straight up to level twelve which is pointe work. I was trained through Virtue Dance Academy in The Bahamas and was judged once a year by The American Academy of Ballet. This was the perfect school for me as they did acting and Christian stage performance also. Dance and writing are similar for me as I consider them both to be a presentation of energy flowing from another world into reality.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I have learned to never ignore your passion. My passion has always been writing; however, I was encouraged by a guidance counselor to pick a more “realistic” career. I was told that I would not be able to make a living if I chose the path of writing. My income so far for the month of March 2021 is 9k. May I add that the month isn’t over yet (as I’m writing this). I would like to encourage you to trust your passion. Money should never be the driving force behind what it is you choose to do; however, when you are walking in your purpose, your passion will indeed bring value to those you are meant to serve. As long as you bring about an outstanding result, wealth will follow. Why? Because people will indeed pay you for the results you are able to give them. You will absolutely give excellent results if you are passionate about what you do. No matter how small your dream seems, still pursue it. You may not see the full vision at first, but eventually, you will come to discover that your passion is connected to your purpose. Trust the passion God gave you. It is He who will use it to achieve His purpose for your life.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: I believe a woman can be independent; however, having a partner is valuable. I have always found the concept of teamwork beautiful—one team working towards one goal. I feel a husband and wife who are two whole people walking in their purpose and impacting the world together is a force to be reckoned with. Respect, love, empowerment and bravery of both parties is crucial. At the end of the day, we are all human beings—none better than the other. If a husband and wife are stuck on a deserted island, they both need to operate as a team to survive. His strength is needed to build a shelter. Her endurance is valuable when hunting food. Each has brought something unique to the table. Each has something different yet valuable to offer. Both are equally great because both have something exceptional to offer. Yes, some may say you can do it alone, but I am a huge fan of teamwork and so, this is where I stand on the subject. It is possible alone, but it is even better using teamwork. This is just my opinion and how I feel although many may disagree.


MORE ABOUT ELAINE:

I was born and raised in Nassau, Bahamas. I absolutely love island hopping and visiting our local resorts. I have two sons—ages seven and four. They both adore cars, Amazon, and taking long drives. The eldest hates reading while the youngest began reading at the age of two and loves it. Like all kids, they are both different but equally special.

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Woman Wednesday: Stacy


Q and A with Stacy from Diego Martin, Trinidad, living in Morvant, Trinidad

“Life is not promised; we can be here today and gone the next. Cherish every moment. We, too, will get old.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m passionate about the elderly, their well-being, their care, and making sure their quality of life is one of dignity, respect, and a happy, loving environment. I’m the proud owner of Caregivers & More Nursing Agency. I provide in-home nursing care in the areas of eldercare, hospice, palliative care, nanny care, post op care, hospice, and domestic services. I am a nurse by profession, having been cross trained in the areas of accident & emergency, operating theater, surgical/medical ward, hospice care, midwifery, and palliative care. I’m also a registered phlebotomist and have a certification in dietetics. I’ve been working in elder care/gerontology since the tender age of seventeen (17). My mom is a retired nurse with the same specialty. One decision to help an elderly patient who was in need of a caregiver would set the course of my profession forever. Social work with the emphasis on gerontology is next on my agenda regarding education, but I’m presently working on a presentation to open my new assisted living facility here in Trinidad.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: Since I was raised by my grandparents, I would say that I’m pretty much old school. My younger sister and I have many fond memories of my grandparents. Always warm, loving figure heads with a wealth of strong principles. I believe this has had a major impact regarding the career path I chose. My educational background is as follows: I graduated Tranquility Government Secondary School class of ’93 at age 16, then I migrated to the U.S. that summer to Silver Springs, where my mom lived and still resides. I would finally decide on my career choice a year later, having seen my mom in a similar job having watched how effortlessly she executed her job with joy. I attended Sheridan University in Brampton, Canada, after having visited my grandfather for a summer. I graduated with a double major of AS Licensed practical nursing and AS nursing administration in 1998. I would then further take various courses in phlebotomy, wound care, and midwifery at West Shore Private Medical Hospital back in Trinidad after I moved back home in 2001.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: The one valuable lesson I’ve learned that I’d like others to know is that life is not promised; we can be here today and gone the next. Cherish every moment. We, too, will get old and we’d want our caregivers to treat us with love, respect, and dignity; treat your elderly with compassion, please.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Simply put, I believe feminism means all genders having equal rights and opportunities. It’s about levelling the playing field between genders and ensuring that diverse women and girls have the same opportunities in life available to boys and men.


MORE ABOUT STACY:

I believe that caring for an elderly person should be done in the comfort of their own home, when we remove them from their place of comfort, we rob them of their peace, stability, and foundation. Caregivers and More was founded on those key principles and as my tagline states: We Believe There Is No Place Like Home

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425-526-3596 is my long distance contact, and I’m on all major social media site such as Facebook: Caregivers Plus Instagram, LinkedIn, WhatsApp: 868-380-1947

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Woman Wednesday: Courtney R.


Q and A with Courtney R., Vancouver, Washington

“We all need a great circle of empowering strong women to push us on all the hard days but also celebrate our wins.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I’m a mom of three; two boys ages 13 and 11, and a girl age 6. My kids are my whole world. I own a women’s clothing store in Vancouver, Washington, and we specialize in size inclusivity and ethnic fashion. All things girlie is who I am; I love personal shopping and styling my clients and myself (give me all the fun hot tools to play with my hair all day and bright lipstick because it’s a staple) because showing up feeling my best is important. It also empowers other women to do the same.

Personal styling and shopping is what I do because fashion is for everyone and we always feel better when we like our outfit. The store was a dream I had with my best friend from middle school; that’s what bonded us. (Funny story) she didn’t like me but loved my outfit and her mom made her hang out with me [she laughs], we’ve now been best friends for over 17 years! I’m also the girl who loves to get dirty and camp (any outdoor activity hiking and swimming the river is what I do all summer here in the PNW, where I was born and raised). Count me in on long weekends with my girlfriends because we are the tribe we keep! We all need a great circle of empowering strong women to push us on all the hard days but also celebrate our wins. I love to travel. Hawaii is my favorite but Japan, Africa, New York, and Italy are on my long bucket list. I’m also a adrenaline junkie, so skydiving, roller coasters, all those things…count me in. My goal is to have my store in multiple locations where I can shop a little differently for each location. (Depending where its at…weather and all that).


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I have one older brother. My parents are divorced, so childhood was different in each house. At my mom’s, I was an only child. At my dad’s, we had a blended family and I had a step brother and 2 step sisters. I was the oldest. I graduated from high school in 2007 and became a mom shortly after. I stayed home with my kids until I opened my boutique. Coming from a divorced home had its challenges, but it made me the strong, independent mother and friend I am today.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: Being a business owner isn’t for the faint of heart, but if you always go back to your core values and stay humble, you can get through any hard day and you always appreciate the wins. (That’s what I’ve learned.) Believe came about because we wanted to inspire women to follow their dreams (that’s what we did), and when you put your whole heart into something, anything is possible.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Feminism, to me, is rejecting stereotypes and expectations put in place centuries ago to keep women in their “place.” And replacing those expectations with love, acceptance, support, and encouragement. There are millions of women in the world and there are millions of ways to embody womanhood. Feminism is cheering for every woman in whatever way she chooses to be a woman.


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Woman Wednesday: Mai


Q and A with Mai, Tacloban City, Philippines

“Although not everyone will listen to you, or other people might think that you’re weird or different, I think that’s the beauty of it all–being unique and understanding who you are will really help you gauge who your people are and who you resonate with.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I really find joy in traveling, music, and discovering new places (especially nature-related ones), and meeting people doing different disciplines of art. Currently, I am running a small visual branding and graphic design business where I cater to fellow small business entrepreneurs as well as event planners and community builders.

Being surrounded by a lot of amazing artists and graphic designers, years ago, I felt very insecure about my art. I felt like I did not belong, that I was not enough. When I was in high school, I remember that the first computer software I played around with was this app called PhotoScape. It is like the modern day Canva, with less functionalities of course, but still very useable. Back then, I used that software to create Facebook posts, the logos of the online businesses I started, and editing random photos of myself with my friends and family. I remember feeling happy after completing a single mini-project and, back then, it still was not that apparent to me that I was passionate about this.

I grew up not having an actual ‘hobby,’ so knowing that through this craft, I would be able to express myself, I started exploring other tools. Fast forward to today, I am still studying and honing my skills when it comes to visual branding and graphic design, but I am grateful to be able to go through that ‘impostor’ stage in my life because through that experience, I was able to compete with myself (and silently compete with others, too) and really realize where I stand in this field. Currently, I help different business, both local ones here in the Philippines as well as international clients, and I hope to really help more entrepreneurs in the near future.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: I grew up in a family where my parents had high expectations of me when it came to education. Let’s just say, I was considered as one that was “academically smart” when I was starting my schooling. I always had this competitive nature in me that I wanted to always be at the top when it came to academic performance. From nursery until I turned 5th grade, I was the top, #1 performer in our class, except for one school year where our class had two 1st honors, and it was me and my best friend. Having these academic recognitions really boosted my confidence as a student and as a person for a while.

I remember I liked expressing my creativity with how I looked, and I loved buying clothes that somehow had that subtle grungy and Rockstar feeling. I enjoyed wearing accessories that were normally used by men. I even thought I was not straight, but I remember having a guy elementary crush which validated that yes, I am straight [laughs]. But I guess one of the major events in my life was when I was in high school; I remember starting an online e-book shop. Yes, let me cut to the chase, the business was illegal; I resold e-books I bought or downloaded online which I knew was not allowed, but that business really boomed and I felt that, at that time, I was not doing anything wrong. Things starting going down south when my shop got featured at a national newspaper, and I started receiving Facebook messages from the international authors’ editors or secretaries, saying that they’d hunt me down here in the country and sue me. I was really terrified and, even if the business was really doing well because I already had these “loyal customers,” I then realized that, yes, it was indeed wrong, and I should stop what I was doing. So, I did stop and closed down the page. It was through that business where I honed my entrepreneurial skills, but it was also at that business where my moral values were tested at a very young age, and though scary, I think part of me is grateful that that happened, because I wouldn’t be where I am today if not for that. I think if that did not happen, I would still think that piracy or even copying other people’s work is okay, which it is actually NOT.


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: I guess the most valuable thing I could share to other people is that authenticity really comes first. Although not everyone will listen to you, or other people might think that you’re weird or different, I think that’s the beauty of it all–being unique and understanding who you are will really help you gauge who your people are and who you resonate with. It’s also a great time-saving hack, I must say, because it will really help eliminate those people that don’t align with your values.


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Feminism, for me, having a relation to the word ‘feminine’ does not necessarily mean woman. I think men also has this in them, the same way; masculinity is somehow a part of us as well. Feminism for me promotes values such as compassion, kindness, boundaries, and self-love.


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MORE ABOUT MAI: I am from Tacloban City, oh, and actually, I don’t want to consider myself as a ‘victim,’ but I’m one of the survivors of Typhoon Haiyan, year 2013. And if you’re not aware about this, it’s actually considered as one of the strongest typhoons recorded in history. I was there, my family was there, and we really felt the struggle of losing everything. Thank God, no lives were lost. But this event also had a major impact on me. It taught me strength, compassion, camaraderie, resilience, and most especially, love. The values that we learn from these countless lessons we’ve had in life could go on limitless times, but I think the most important thing is how we’re able to carry these beautiful values and really apply them on who we are today and become the best versions of ourselves, for ourselves.


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Woman Wednesday: Mariam


Q and A with Mariam, Montreal, Canada

I seek out to channel the lessons I’ve learned from Khadija every day.”


Q: What are you passionate about? 

A: I love teaching. I’ve always loved teaching because of being able to help people go through breakthrough moments. It has been my passion from a very young age. Writing was always my coping mechanism. My parents were terminally ill since I was a kid, and I wrote poetry to cope with it.

So, I became an English teacher who also wrote copy on the side. Around 2 years ago, Bill 21 came into effect in Quebec, which prompted me to decide to start a business. I started writing copy full time. I realized I was actually developing most of their content strategy as well as doing their copy, and that is when I started studying it even more (I love studying) and ended up doing this full time. Within 3 months, I was able to make more than my 9-to-5 job and quit. Eventually, I started missing teaching. So now, I teach new entrepreneurs how to make a full-time income out of their business.


Q: What were your younger years like?

A: My upbringing was centered around the fact that my mom had breast cancer and my dad had lymphoma. My mom died when I was 16 from her second cancer and my father from his third when I was 25, so 2 years ago now. 

I’ve always loved writing and have always used that as a coping mechanism. In fact, I have a poetry collection coming out soon entitled, “Eulogy: Our Stories Put to Rest.”


Q: What is something valuable you’d like others to know?

A: That you can do anything you set your mind to! That you are literally the one that decides your faith. Focus on what you have control over and move forward collecting the tools (learn) you need for the outcome of your dreams. 


Q: What does feminism mean to you? 

A: Everything. When I was young, my father told me the story of Khadija RDA, a historical figure in Islamic heritage. She was a business owner and considered to be the mother of Islam. I was so fascinated by the fact that she had proposed to her husband, the Prophet in our tradition; she was one of the wealthiest individuals of her time and space and also one of the kindest. She was so ahead of her time! She would always put out a green cloth over her entry way so people would know to come to her if they needed help. I seek out to channel the lessons I’ve learned from Khadija every day.

I am a strong woman that has always taken care of herself. That is the backbone of my story. In fact, my life today on Facebook is about the 3 lessons I’ve learned from amazing women. And, I will be focusing on Audrey Hepburn, Khadija RDA (historical figure in Islamic heritage), and my mom.


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MORE ABOUT MARIAM: I drive my company and my everyday life on empathy. It is at the core of my philosophy and my business. I set goals to give back. In fact, I have a mastermind coming up next week. 100% of ticket sales is directly going to fund food baskets for families in need.


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